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A question about how to enjoy dates.

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If it happens or not. When that being the goal started to feel a little boring, I became a male member looking for the next way to enjoy myself. Recently, I’ve almost forgotten that there’s a beautiful woman sitting right in front of me (next to me), and I’ve made it my hobby to tease the staff at expensive restaurants who initially seem to be thinking, “What kind of couple is this? Hmph,” order the staff to try the wine they recommend, and get them to say, “To be honest, I’m jealous.” Then, when it comes to what happens after dinner, we run out of time and never get that far... Not exactly ideal. What am I doing? That’s how it feels. Even if things don’t progress after dinner, it’s still fun. (It’s more fun when they do, though.) I’d really appreciate it if you could tell me about some mature ways to enjoy a date like that.
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I’m Saito, a columnist♪ > These days, I’ve almost forgotten that there’s a beautiful woman sitting right in front of me—or beside me. At first, the staff at these upscale restaurants look at us as if to say, “What’s with this couple?” But lately, I’ve started enjoying teasing them, having them taste the wine they recommend, and getting them to say, “Honestly, I’m jealous.” I actually went through a phase like that myself, briefly. But… I’m not so sure about it anymore. At nice restaurants, everyone tends to be high-income, and the women are all beautiful, too. Maybe you should try changing the level of the restaurants you go to? Once, I went to a restaurant that was the kind of place featured in Tokyo Calendar, and the situation became exactly as described above. On top of that, even the owner of the restaurant tried to hit on the woman who was waiting for me. Just like the person asking the question, I get bored when a woman has no substance or anything interesting to talk about—especially if we meet frequently. Even when I go to places like that, I somehow feel as though my own level has been lowered, and it brings my mood down. I’d honestly rather have a lively time in Shinbashi or under the elevated tracks, but there aren’t many beautiful women who can create that kind of atmosphere, so I’m still wandering around trying to figure things out. That’s why I tend to have longer relationships with women in unusual professions who have plenty of interesting stories to share.
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I’m Joe, a male member and columnist. As you may know, Joe rarely gets there either. So hearing about your experience made me feel like I’d found a kindred spirit. I’m sure you’re already enjoying yourself plenty, but let me share a few of my own modest pleasures. **No. 1** I have a young woman who’s aiming for graduate school teach me. Unless I read the assigned texts, she won’t go on a date with me, so I’m kept pretty busy. The other day, she even let me read a draft of her master’s thesis. When I retire, I’d like to go to graduate school too (lol). **No. 2** She has a truly drool-worthy figure, and whenever we eat at a restaurant, she’s the center of attention. She knows her own worth, so she’s quite demanding when it comes to her allowance. She’s been handling older men since she was a teenager, so she’s very experienced. Joe gets wrapped around her finger just as easily. However, the boyfriends she dates privately are always picture-perfect nice guys—men who couldn’t seem less like a good match for her. Due to certain circumstances, I recently invited her boyfriend to dinner with the two of us (lol). He was an unbelievably great guy—even better than I’d heard. Even if she eventually gets tired of me, I’d still like to stay in touch with him (爆).
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