I often see a monthly target of around ¥100,000 mentioned. In general, though, I’m not sure whether women are looking for ¥100,000 per meeting or ¥100,000 per month. If it’s the latter, meeting twice a month would work out to ¥50,000 per meeting, right?
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I know I could simply ask when we meet, but I’d like to have a rough idea beforehand.
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It’s not really something you can generalize about—it depends on the papa.
By the way, I recommend pay-per-meeting arrangements.
Once, I got 10,000 yen the first time and thought, “Wait, isn’t that more than the allowance we discussed?” Then the next time, I got no allowance at all. *eye roll*
You can imagine how I felt...
I’M NEVER MEETING HIM AGAIN.
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You might meet two papas once a month, with a pay-per-meeting allowance of five from each, for a total of ten per month.
However, I get the impression that relatively few women make such specific calculations.
Just as you’re wondering whether it’s ten per meeting or ten per month, women are also thinking about exactly how much allowance they can receive. Generally speaking, there’s no fixed answer—it depends on the time, circumstances, and you—and even if you ask when you meet, you rarely get a clear answer.
As you continue seeing each other, don’t you think things naturally settle at an amount that feels reasonable to both of you?
Also, whether a woman accepts or continues with the same allowance apparently depends on her impression of the man. Some women who normally date on a pay-per-meeting allowance of five may cut things off because they don’t like a man offering ten per meeting.
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It’s a response from a woman who doesn’t come across as overly focused on money, which is appealing.
She has another job, and says that having around ¥100,000 on top of that would be nice.
Taking “¥100,000 a month” literally, she’d be really lucky if she got ¥100,000 per pay-per-meeting arrangement. She’d also be lucky to meet twice a month for ¥50,000 each time, or even have two papas (male supporters) paying ¥50,000 per meeting.
When she first has her interview and gets the explanation, an inexperienced woman can’t really picture what it’s like, so she gives a rough answer. Since the club also provides sample answers, that’s probably why they end up saying around ¥100,000 a month.
As they get used to papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), I think they tend to split into two groups: those who realize they can maintain multiple arrangements and start wanting more because it suits them, and those who decide they can’t handle being intimate with older men or with multiple people and quit.
Their profile may say their monthly goal is ¥100,000, but I also know women who are actively maintaining multiple arrangements. At first they didn’t know what was possible, but then they received lots of offers and, before they knew it, they were making it happen, lol.
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It’s not so much about calculating the amount as feeling like I have to give an answer because they asked.
If it’s your first time, you don’t even know whether you’ll get an offer, and it’s not like you’re confident about it. So you may end up giving a figure like that simply because you feel you have to say something, without really knowing what’s appropriate.
For someone living a regular life, an extra ¥100,000 can mean having almost twice as much spending money left after paying rent and utilities. So for someone living ordinarily, it could be considered a fairly substantial and valuable amount.
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They probably have two pay-per-meeting dates in mind at 50,000 yen each, but a woman’s expectations can change after meeting several men and speaking with the agency during her profile interview.
She may have initially been thinking around 50,000 yen, but if one of the male members she met gave her 100,000 yen, she may now consider 100,000 yen the standard.
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I think it’s probably 50,000 yen per meeting, twice a month.
They’re saying 100,000 yen, but deep down, they may be thinking they could get to 300,000 yen by finding about three people.
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