We both thought we were exclusive, but I’m starting to wonder if he may be seeing another woman.
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We meet once or twice a month. Do you think there’s a good chance he’s seeing someone else too…?
He often asks me out the day before, so I’m also wondering if I’m lower on his list of priorities than the other women.
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I’ve felt the same way before.
I have a papa (a male supporter) I’ve been seeing for five years now, and I really care about him. When we first started seeing each other, I used to get jealous over other women who might not even exist.
I even asked my papa about it once. But he said, “What good does it do to think about that? We’re still continuing to see each other like this, aren’t we?”
There might be other women, but I realized there was nothing I could do about it, so I stopped worrying about it.
That said, being invited the day before is inconvenient, so you want them to let you know their plans earlier, right? (Exactly.)
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If you only see each other once or twice a month, then realistically, it wouldn’t be surprising if he were seeing someone else too.
That said, the fact that he only invites you on the day before might simply be due to work or some other reason.
If he were planning to see someone else behind your back, he’d probably be more careful about it. So I feel it’s premature to assume, based on this alone, that there’s someone else.
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There may be more than one.
In a setting like this, bringing conventional ideas about fidelity into it may not work. Unless you’re okay with pressing her for answers and potentially damaging the relationship...
Personally, women who are willing to go on a date at the last minute or even the day before are very useful when I’m busy or suddenly in the mood, so I wouldn’t rank them low on my priority list...
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If you’re invited the day before and the number of dates and allowance are what you agreed on, I don’t see any problem—the goal has been achieved.
If you think about it too much, though, you may be right in seeing it that way.
Being able to meet on days that work for both of you without arranging things far in advance can be a major benefit for both sides.
I don’t think there’s anything wrong with a relationship where you contact each other the day before or even the day of and meet if you’re both available.
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Even if you consider what percentage of male members at a dating club are seeing multiple women, that won’t tell you whether your partner is seeing several women.
Statistical probabilities are useful for looking at broad trends, but they don’t tell you anything meaningful about the one person in front of you.
I think it’s better to assume from the outset that he may have multiple partners, including however many other women he’s seeing.
He may simply be the kind of person who makes plans the day before.
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