I quit papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) and had an affair with a flight attendant in her 40s. My wife almost found out, and when my affair partner started pressuring me to divorce my wife, I ended things.
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I recently started papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) again after taking a long break, and I get the impression that PJ allowances have gone up quite a bit. Have allowances increased over the past few years?
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I don’t think there have been any major changes over the past few years.
In my case, the woman I’m seeing was a student when we first started, so I think her allowance was a significant factor. Now that she’s in her fourth year as a working professional, though, I feel that allowance has become less important to her.
Personally, I feel she no longer really needs the allowance, but she says, “It’s better to have something than nothing,” so she shows no signs of quitting（笑）
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In my experience, everything became 20–30% more expensive from the year before last to last year, and it feels like prices will continue rising from here—just more gradually than before.
Meanwhile, I’ve heard that rent is only just about to start going up, so aside from highly popular properties, it hasn’t risen much yet.
I don’t feel that allowances have increased yet, either. If inflation continues, do you think allowances will eventually start rising, perhaps five or ten years from now, like rent?
That said, from a woman’s perspective, if the allowance stays the same while the goods and services it can buy become 20–30% more expensive, its real value has gone down. I think men need to understand that as well.
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I’m fairly new to papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), so I may not be the best person to ask, but I don’t get the impression that rates have gone up that much.
It sounds like you’re with a different dating club—how are things at other clubs?
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