People I meet for the first time often tell me I’m not very sexy.
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It’s been that way since I was 19, when I started using a dating club.
Sometimes I wonder if I’d be more popular if I had more sex appeal. But are men who intentionally choose girls without much sex appeal generally rare?
Also, what kind of girls do you find sexy?
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Even if she doesn’t come across as sexy, he chose her based on her photos, so that’s probably the kind of woman he likes.
Personally, I’m more turned on by women who look refined and innocent, yet are also mature and alluring.
On the other hand, women who put all their sex appeal on display and flaunt their huge breasts actually turn me off, lol.
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Would you really say that at a first meeting?
I do think that’s a bit much, but what someone finds alluring really comes down to their personal tastes, doesn’t it? For me, it would probably be a refined, natural look—and a smile.
Since he made you an offer, he’s presumably seen your profile, so you should probably avoid makeup that gives an impression drastically different from what’s shown there.
Also, the club has its impression of you from your interview, so you could ask them what kind of impression you gave.
Men make offers based on your photos and profile appeal, after all.
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I’m a pervert, so I may not be the best reference, but as Kazu-san said, what exactly is “sex appeal”?
If by that you mean things like overtly flaunting your sexiness, or underwear and cleavage that are almost—but not quite—visible, then I have absolutely no interest in that. In that sense, I may be one of those “rare” men who deliberately choose women without sex appeal.
This may sound like outright criticism of the club, but some female members wear knit tops with cutouts around the chest in their profile photos. I’m sorry, but I completely pass on women wearing those. I don’t choose based on breasts! In fact, every woman I’ve made an offer to has appeared in her own clothes in her photos. And with every woman I’ve actually met, things progressed all the way, and I’d like to think they were reasonably happy with how things went.
Rather than getting caught up in the superficial question of whether having sex appeal will make you popular, why not focus on enhancing your appeal as a person and as a woman?
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Lately, I’ve been really into Mamiko Suzuki from chelmico. Her looks, reminiscent of Masami Nagasawa around the time of *Moteki*, combined with her musical versatility and her love of comedy and radio, are completely my type.
I’m also really drawn to women who look great in caps, like Mamiko.
Women around their 30s who come into a bar alone with short hair, a cap, stylish earrings, and a casual outfit—that kind of look has a real sex appeal to me. Though, to be honest, I’m basically imagining Mamiko Suzuki when I say that.
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As you said, I think what people find alluring varies from person to person.
Personally, I’m drawn to the unguarded side that women with serious, respectable jobs show in their private lives. So, when I meet someone for the first time, what I find sexy is whether she comes across as somewhat conservative and reserved.
I think sex appeal means sexual attraction, so men who choose women with little sex appeal are probably the type who prefer immature, unsophisticated girls barely in their twenties. Apparently, there are plenty of men who like younger women, so it may not be all that unusual.
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