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Sep 22, 2023 15:04
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I don’t want to be seen as someone who’ll meet just anyone, so I’m wondering whether I should switch to B2.
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Age: 60s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m not sure whether it’s because of the Type B1/B2 classification, but it feels like more attractive new women are now in the A–B2 range, while fewer are Type C.
Even when they remain Type C, my impression of them hasn’t changed from before, so I feel it may be better to leave things as they are.
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Thank you for your question. I’ll answer as well.
> Since the guidelines changed, does C now come across the way D used to?
The guidelines haven’t changed in particular. Where did you hear that they had?
Since the guidelines are the same, C is still C, both then and now. It isn’t the case that C is being viewed like D.
With C, there has always been about a 50% chance that things will develop into a relationship starting that day—although the percentage explanation is no longer shown—so even if one in two men is turned down, it isn’t considered a scam.
With D, if the allowance is what the man is hoping for, women generally don’t turn him down based on his looks, conversational skills, or similar factors. Even so, they’re still allowed to say no. This isn’t a sex-services business, so both women and men have the right to choose.
> I don’t want to be seen as the kind of girl who’ll go out with anyone.
I imagine men who feel the same way tend to choose women with a C type rather than D. However, perhaps this C woman received an offer from a man who assumed there was a 99% chance she would agree to see him.
This has always happened: many men think, “Even if she turns other people down, she’ll probably accept me.”
So when they’re occasionally rejected, they may press the issue, asking, “Why? What’s wrong with me?” I sometimes hear that it can be difficult to turn them down.
With that in mind, choosing B2 might be a good option. However, on the first date, you’ll part ways after just having dinner, so I hope you’ll carefully consider whether you’re comfortable with that.
Your dating type is simply a way of expressing your own feelings by assigning them to a category. If your feelings have changed, there’s nothing wrong with changing your dating type, but the fact that you changed it will be noted, so I don’t think it’s best to change it too frequently. If you make too many changes, people may become wary of you.
🏅 日没を遅らせる唯一の方法は日没に向かって走り続けることだ
名古屋支店登録で、男性会員としての登録名もマックさんです。コラム多数書いてますのでよろしければご参照ください。20代の細身女性が好みで逆オファーには前向きです。経験無いまたは少ない方大歓迎。
Age: 60s
👨 Male
Universe member
Ever since B was split into B1 and B2, I feel like more women have been choosing B2. It seems like girls who would previously have gone with C are now gravitating toward B2.
In other words, there seem to be fewer C profiles.
But I don’t think many girls are deliberately changing from C to B2, are they?
That’s just my impression—I haven’t actually counted.
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Age: 50s
👨 Male
Other
Since only B was broken down further, I don’t think A, C, and D look any different.
It’s me.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
Personally, I don’t think it has become personal.