I’m the person who just asked about popular women in the Standard class.
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If you don’t like a question, you can simply choose not to answer it, yet some people still go out of their way to leave pointless replies. I asked because I genuinely wanted to know—if you don’t think it’s worth answering, just ignore it. Some people are unbelievably rude.
My question here is about what women wear on their feet when they come for a date.
These days, most women you see around town—regardless of age, even younger women—wear flat shoes or sandals. But from a man’s perspective, do you prefer women to wear heels?
I usually wear heels ranging from fairly high to around 8 cm because they make my legs look better. However, since so many women nowadays wear flat, unsexy shoes, I started wondering which is actually preferred.
Please don’t answer, “It depends on the person.” I’d like to hear each respondent’s personal preference. Female respondents, please also say how many centimeters high your heels are.
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I’ve heard that women look at a man’s shoes first when meeting him.
But conversely, I think most men don’t pay much attention to women’s shoes.
Personally, I only check whether they’re wearing high heels if I think we’ll be walking quite a bit and I need to be considerate of them.
By the way, since you seem to be looking for a pleasant-sounding answer, you’ll probably get the response you want by using ChatGPT.
I wish people would stop adding unnecessary demands.
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I tend to choose clothes and shoes based on my own taste rather than following trends, so I prefer high heels that make my legs look great.
When I go on a golf date, I don’t wear my golf outfit there, so I go with stylish flats.
I’m curious about your mention of heels starting at 8 cm. Even 8 cm is quite high, in my opinion. Can you walk gracefully in shoes with a fairly high platform, like those worn by hostesses?
They’re fine if you’re just standing, but I think you should also consider whether you can walk elegantly in them when choosing a pair.
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I want to stay on trend, so these days I usually wear platform sandals with six-centimeter heels, sporty sandals, or sneakers.
When I first started papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), heels were still somewhat in fashion, so I also wore seven- or eight-centimeter pumps.
In any case, I choose clean-looking shoes that suit my papa’s tastes.
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You can just skip over answers that come across as rude. Arguing with people you don’t get along with is a waste of time (^^)
Personally, I don’t care about shoes. That said, first impressions do matter when you meet someone, so I think it’s best to wear something that makes you feel you look your best.
By the way, one woman told me she wore sneakers to the first meeting so she could run away if the guy turned out to be dangerous. She wore sneakers the second and third times too, so I wondered if maybe she still hadn’t opened up to me—but perhaps she simply liked sneakers.
I also knew a woman who always wore high heels and looked elegant standing up. After meeting her several times and getting used to seeing her that way, I once saw her grooming herself barefoot and completely naked in front of the hotel bathroom sink. Oddly enough, my first thought was, “Whoa, her legs are short.”
When I took a petite woman who carried herself beautifully in high heels to a traditional restaurant in an old downtown neighborhood, the proprietress teased her mercilessly as she put her shoes back on before leaving the tatami room: “Oh my, those heels are awfully high. Are you going to be all right?” It made me laugh. Those old-town proprietresses really do get involved in everything, lol.
If you didn’t like that, you can just skip it（笑）
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I’m Paper Airplane. While I was working from home, my wife said, “Even a one-year-old could do that if all you’re doing is sitting there,” smacked me, and kicked me out—so I ended up going on another date today.
Men aren’t interested in what interests women, and women aren’t interested in what interests men. That’s why I think they’re drawn to each other and things work out.
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I respond rudely to rude questions. If you’re going to be rude to people, it’s pretty selfish to expect them not to be rude back（笑）
As for the question, it really depends on the person（笑）
I don’t think knowing the answerer’s personal preference will help much, but personally, I’m fine with or without heels. That said, I do find it a bit comical when Asian women who aren’t particularly tall wear extremely high heels.
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I’d say I prefer things on the flatter side. When they get too high, your footing seems to become wobbly and unstable.
It’s better to have you keep your feet firmly on the ground and walk steadily（笑).
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