I wonder if you also speak to the women you meet in that kind of tone. If not, it’s disappointing that this seems to be a gathering of people who change their attitude depending on the person, simply because they’re anonymous.
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I treat each situation differently.
People come from all kinds of backgrounds, so it would be impossible for everything to be the same. It also depends on whether they’re men or women, and whether I have feelings for them or not.
At least among the business owners I know, I don’t know anyone who treats everyone exactly the same.
Honestly, I think it’s shameful that you can say something so definitively without revealing anything about yourself just because you’re anonymous, and without knowing the full situation. It also made me realize that I wouldn’t want to become that kind of person 20 years from now.
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I tend to answer from the other person’s perspective.
If they’re serious, I respond seriously. If I think, “What a fool,” I answer them on their own level.
Sometimes, like back in my school days, I set the question aside and simply share my own opinion.
Well, there’s nothing wrong with that, is there?
Answers should be enjoyable and mutually beneficial, just like dating.
Read them while proofreading and editing them yourself.
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For you, the unpleasantness of the question doesn’t seem to matter, does it?
The people answering aren’t saints, so don’t you think they sometimes get annoyed?
It’s the same with women.
When someone annoys me, I respond accordingly.
I don’t like treating people differently depending on who they are.
That said, none of the women I’ve continued seeing have been like that.
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I think I use the same tone with everyone.
I don’t change it depending on the person.
That said, when necessary, I sometimes write things intended to make not only the person asking the question but also the readers feel provoked or irritated. I’ve never written anything specifically to annoy the person answering; it’s always meant as an exchange for the readers.
It may not apply in every case, but generally speaking, people who are willing to tell you something harsh are more valuable, so when necessary, I may explain or guide someone in the same way.
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Of course they wouldn’t tell you.
Written language and spoken language are different.
Besides, when you make an offer through a club, you’re both anonymous anyway.
I think someone who doesn’t adjust their attitude to suit the other person lacks social skills.
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