My papa’s birthday is in August, and lately he’s been constantly asking me for presents. I’d understand if he just said he wanted a gift, but he’s asking for high-end brand clothes and backpacks costing ¥100,000 to ¥300,000.
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It would be one thing if he gave me a generous allowance every time, but he only pays about average…
I’m honestly so put off that he expects someone young enough to be his daughter to buy him things like that, and I don’t know how to respond. I feel like he wouldn’t be happy with anything I could afford to give him. What should I do?
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I think Mac’s answer is the best one.
Part of making papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) work is knowing how to handle those difficult men. In that sense, Mac’s answer seems spot-on. And if you can’t bring yourself to cry on cue, you might be better off giving up on papa-katsu.
This is just my impression, but it sounds like you’re trying to get back about half of the allowance you’ve given him so far, which feels a little stingy to me.
If you don’t think you can handle him skillfully, it may be best to end things.
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I think Mac’s answer is right.
If they’re still stupid enough to keep asking, tell them you’ll give it to them in August, then block them the day before their birthday.
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Why not try saying, “I’m doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) because I’m broke, so why would you say something so cruel to me?” and pretend to cry?
If you can’t put on an act that convincing, you have no business doing papa-katsu.
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