I’m a woman who turned 50 this year.

I’ve received some follow-up comments and questions, but I’ll answer here to keep things organized. ① If we’re talking about whether you’re likely to receive offers, I’d say you probably are. First of all, if you have a large bust and are skilled in bed, you’ll likely do quite well. Male members are basically looking for intimacy, so being good at it is a major advantage. Honestly, both large and small busts have their fans, but a clearly noticeable large bust looks good on a profile, so it gives you an edge. Next, although you’re older, it’s also a plus that you seem to have built up some life experience and would carry yourself appropriately. Whatever happens in bed, there are quite a few women whom a man would feel embarrassed to be seen with at dinner. To be honest, you can’t take someone like that to a familiar restaurant for a first meeting. The older the man, the more likely he is to care about that, so being able to put those concerns to rest is a major advantage. ② As long as you wear contact lenses and do your makeup for the interview and first date, I think you’ll be fine. First impressions matter. It may be a kind of deception, but a little of that is part of life, isn’t it? I think many male members understand that. Even when opening up and being honest about your feelings, I believe it’s important to take things one step at a time—especially when it comes to the impression you create. ③ You shouldn’t go that far in an adult relationship (intimate). Many women leave their makeup on and keep their earrings and necklaces on as well. Once you’ve become closer—close enough to stay over or travel together—glasses and a bare face should be fine. Even if your first date involves staying overnight, it’s better to maintain your makeup as much as possible. I’ve experienced this once: the woman who came out of the shower looked like Daitai Hikaru. I’ve been through my share of rough situations, so it worked out in the end, but the atmosphere was a little awkward. A great adventure in your fifties—how exciting. Wishing you the best of luck. Taro