Men my age just don’t satisfy me. I’m independent myself, so I’m looking for a financially and emotionally well-off man who can be both my boyfriend and my papa (a male supporter). Is that wrong? I don’t feel guilty at all about meeting someone this way.

Of course, you’re not wrong. At the same time, I couldn’t help thinking that if you were truly independent, you wouldn’t need to ask this question here. I hope you find a good match.

What I can say for now is that someone who is truly independent probably wouldn’t ask a complete stranger about something like this. I don’t think independent people need validation from others. After reading your previous question, I wondered whether your relationships weren’t progressing because, to that 20% of men, you weren’t quite enough. Now, this hypothesis seems increasingly likely to be correct. And since this is an anonymous Q&A site, feel free to ask questions.