Many B-type women are originally closer to C-type, and some choose B-type because it makes it easier to turn someone down.
Even with B1, some women are okay with a second meeting depending on the man, but choose B1 as a safety measure.
There was a woman I was supporting with an offer who had selected B1, even though our meeting would be our second. I wondered if she didn’t know the difference between B1 and B2, so I asked her about it. She surprised me by saying, “I’m okay with it once we’ve gotten comfortable with each other, but I’d like to meet about three times first,” meaning she had deliberately chosen B1.
It made me realize that this is an important choice for women too.
Depending on how well you understand adult relationships, if you have a clear understanding of them, choosing B1 is the safest option. It gives you some leeway, allowing the man to decide whether to move forward at the second or a later meeting.
Also, some men would rather meet several times and build a connection before moving on to an adult relationship, especially if they really like someone. Just as some women don’t see it as merely a physical act and want to first confirm their compatibility, that kind of compatibility is quite important too.
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Whether it’s a B or a C, sometimes they’ll ask, “Would you like to go somewhere after this?” If you’re not comfortable with it either way, you can simply say, “I already have plans today…” and decline. If you like them, you can always go.
Of course, I think you’ll get more offers if you keep your guard down a little.
Do you want to be like everyone else, or do you want to receive more offers? Which is it?
Your relationship type should be chosen based on how you actually feel.
If you choose one solely because it gets you more offers, that amounts to relationship-type fraud—selecting a type that doesn’t match what you really want. Staff also dislike this, so please be careful.
With that in mind, I’d like you to think about why starting from the first day feels difficult.
Normally, when you meet a man for the first time, you use that opportunity to figure out what kind of person he is. Then, based on your impression, you decide whether you want to see him a second time.
In other words, the basic idea behind Type B is that if you feel you can’t be with him, you don’t meet him again.
If you want to meet someone several times for dinner only (no intimacy), and the reason is not that you’re planning to go to a hotel with him, then you should choose Type A, not Type B.
If you can decide on the spot whether you’re willing to H with him, that’s Type C. (Since you’re making a decision, you can also turn him down—the chances are around 50%.)
If you can decide on the day you meet and can go ahead with it on the second meeting, that’s Type B2. (Since you can make the decision, you simply don’t meet him again if you feel it won’t work.)
If you can’t decide on the first day and want to get to know him over several meetings, that’s Type B1.
If you generally can’t H, but might become open to it as the relationship develops, that’s Type A.
If you have absolutely no intention of H and just want to receive money for dinner dates, that’s also Type A.
Looking at it this way, Type B shouldn’t originally have been divided into two categories—Type A should have been split into two instead. But since more than 90% of men don’t make offers to Type A in the first place, perhaps no one really paid attention to that distinction.
So, while everyone naturally cares about getting offers, I think you should consider that separately from your relationship type.
Of course, if you won’t meet someone a second time when it feels wrong, but can H on the second meeting if he seems like a good person, then I think it’s fine to choose B2.
But there’s no benefit in forcing yourself.
Those who were previously type B but haven’t responded to inquiries from the club are classified as B1, so I feel there may be more B1 members.
However, that may change over time.
Every man has different preferences. Men also adjust how they approach women based on their dating type. So rather than choosing a dating type based on what men prefer, I think it’s better to choose according to what you yourself want.
