The papa I’m currently seeing sometimes meets up with a woman he used to date, and he tells me about their meetings afterward.
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(He says their relationship is over, but I suspect they may still be seeing each other.)
I really like this papa, so I don’t want to hear about other women, but I’m worried it would come across as too heavy, so I haven’t told him.
Do you ever talk about the other women you’re seeing?
And would you be bothered if someone asked you to stop talking about other women?
Sorry for asking so many questions.
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It depends on the type of relationship you have with him.
If he’s open to seeing multiple women, talking about other women may simply be one of his conversation topics.
But if it bothers you, I think you should tell him so. He might see you as being too intense, but continuing to put up with it isn’t good for your mental well-being.
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I’ve never had one talk to me about other girls…
Anyway, I think a considerate person would keep that to himself. Bringing it up on purpose just sounds like he’s bragging about how popular he is, and it’s embarrassing for me to even listen to. If he knows you like him and is deliberately telling you anyway, then he’s being incredibly tactless and disrespectful—like, what the hell are you doing?!
As for how to deal with it, maybe just smile sweetly and tell him, “Please stop.” If you get genuinely angry, he might pull away, so try saying with a smile, “But I really don’t want to hear about that.” Good luck!
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> Do you ever talk about the other women you’re seeing?
I don’t mention them to women I see several times a week.
I do talk about them with women I see only occasionally—about once a month—or with those I meet to exchange advice and updates, since they sometimes ask.
> Would you be bothered if a woman asked you to stop talking about other women?
If a man is bringing it up in the first place, you probably aren’t that special to him, so I think it’s better not to say anything.
In a way, having someone you can talk about those things with can be valuable, too. You risk losing one of the reasons he meets with you.
Personally, I only talk about it with women I wouldn’t mind losing contact with—people I see casually rather than as part of an ongoing relationship, such as once a month or once every month or two.
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