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Feb 17, 2023 20:25
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🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
That’s true, Mr. Maezawa.
ChatGPT might be able to give you a good answer.
It depends on you and your mindset.
There’s no guarantee you’ll receive a large allowance.
Why not try it first, keep yourself grounded so your sense of money doesn’t get distorted, and quit if you feel that starting to happen?
A～Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月１程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
Your sense of money changes depending on how much you earn.
When I was in high school, I loved cheap standing soba for around 300 yen. These days, I don’t think twice about spending over 1,000 yen on a bowl of ramen.
That said, I’m not saying ramen should cost 2,000 yen like some soccer player suggested…
With papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), if the income is just a little extra on top of your living expenses, a slight shift in your sense of money probably isn’t a major problem.
But if you’re living solely on papa-katsu, changing your sense of money can be dangerous. Since you’re an adult, you should think carefully for yourself, including the risks that may come afterward.
Other
If you have excellent education, looks, and the ability to read the room, you can probably expect to receive a reasonable allowance.
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
Maybe I’ll go pick up a French cruller and an Angel Cream.
Let’s save 50 million yen without spending any money.
Other
Judging by the way you phrased your question, you probably won’t be making a huge amount of money, unfortunately…
Even if it seems like a small amount to others, if it feels substantial to you, you may get excited and lose your sense of financial perspective.
It all depends on you.
🏅 日没を遅らせる唯一の方法は日没に向かって走り続けることだ
名古屋支店登録で、男性会員としての登録名もマックさんです。コラム多数書いてますのでよろしければご参照ください。20代の細身女性が好みで逆オファーには前向きです。経験無いまたは少ない方大歓迎。
Age: 60s
👨 Male
Universe member
That’s what they call counting your chickens before they hatch.
AI still has a long way to go before it can beat me.
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maybe it’s fine to just have AI answer this…
Here’s another AI-generated answer:
The financial compensation you can receive through papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) varies greatly depending on the nature and terms of the relationship, as well as negotiations with your partner. So there’s no one-size-fits-all answer to how much you can expect to receive.
That said, your sense of money can become distorted in papa-katsu if you start demanding excessively high compensation or become too fixated on money. You should avoid overestimating your own worth based on the allowance you receive or becoming overly attached to money.
It’s also important to receive an amount that fits your lifestyle and living expenses. If you earn more than you need, think carefully about how to use the extra money, such as putting it into savings.
Ultimately, you need to consider whether you’re satisfied with the compensation and whether it’s an amount you can accept without feeling at risk or under stress.
Other
To put it plainly:
If you’re working a regular job and doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) on the side, using your hourly wage as a benchmark can help keep your sense of money from getting distorted. But if you’re not mindful, it can still happen.
On the other hand, if you don’t have a proper full-time job and earn your money solely through papa-katsu, I think your sense of money is likely to become distorted. You see similar points made fairly often in women’s columns, too.
As for whether you’ll earn enough to worry about, that depends on what you’re using as a benchmark. Since a student’s standard is often too vague, if you haven’t established one already, there seems to be a higher chance your sense of money will become distorted.
That’s just my opinion.
P.S.
AI is way too capable. At this point, I feel like AI could handle all the frequently asked questions.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを！
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中！
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです！
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
As a teenager, you may be happy even with a few hundred yen, but eventually you’ll become someone who can no longer feel that way.
I wouldn’t call it going off the rails, but it will be a different life.
Ultimately, I think the best life is one where you can make a living doing what you want. And with papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), if you’re lucky and things fall into place, that isn’t impossible either.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I think whether your sense of money gets distorted depends not on how much you receive, but on how you spend it.