Ladies, do you go to hotels while you’re on your period?
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When I gently told my papa (a male supporter) in a monthly arrangement paying 100,000 yen that I didn’t want to go, he said sadly, “You don’t even want me to finish quickly by hand…?”
What do you think he meant by that? Since it’s a monthly arrangement, is he determined to ejaculate no matter what and only concerned about his own satisfaction? (Sorry for being so blunt.)
If that’s the case, wouldn’t a pay-per-meeting arrangement be better?
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> In that case, a pay-per-meeting arrangement would be better, wouldn’t it?
If what you mean is that you’ll still go to a hotel during your period for the money under a pay-per-meeting arrangement, but don’t want to go because it’s a monthly arrangement and there’s no financial incentive, then I think the man would feel disappointed.
Men understand that money is part of the reason, but I think most of them also believe there’s still a human connection involved—that’s what makes it different from the sex industry.
If you show such an obvious attitude, he may start wondering whether there’s someone better out there.
> Do you think she only cares about herself?
I can’t say since I’ve never met her, but even if that were the case, I think it would be better to handle the relationship more tactfully.
You could say, “I’m on my period. What would you like to do?” and leave the decision up to him. That often seems to work out better.
If you really can’t accept the way he responds, then things clearly aren’t working between you. Rather than letting it stress you out, it might be better to end the relationship.
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Why not go and see how it goes??
You might not even have to take your clothes off…
When a business partner asks, “Is it okay if this is cash on delivery?” or “Is it okay if we deduct the transfer fee?” and you readily say yes, it often doesn’t actually end up that way.
So I don’t think there’s anything wrong with going along.
If you can be affectionate, he may be happy simply because you came with him.
Good things don’t come when you’re being calculating…
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I used to see my monthly-arrangement papa even when I was on my period.
In those cases, we’d usually grab something to eat nearby, then cuddle up in the room, watch TV, and chat. But since I really liked him, I’d tease him and end up wanting to go further, so we’d both head home looking a little disappointed, saying, “What a shame” (lol).
If he said, “Can’t you just use your hand and get it over with?” I’d probably think, “Huh…?” too.
That said, I can kind of understand how men feel, so instead of simply saying, “I don’t want to go to a hotel because I’m on my period,” maybe suggesting something like, “Since I’m on my period, let’s go to ○○ instead today,” or “Would next time be okay?” could help reduce the unpleasantness for you.
If he still keeps asking, you could buy him a TE〇GA and say, “I’ve always wanted to try one~,” then get him off quickly with no contact and plenty of stimulation.
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I’ve gone to a hotel with my papa (a male supporter) while on my period before.
I let him know beforehand, and we spent time cuddling and being affectionate in bed. We gave each other massages, watched TV together, and just enjoyed each other’s company.
If he’d asked me to use my hands, I probably would have. If it were someone I didn’t like, I might think, “Really, when I’m feeling this rough?” But if it were someone I liked, I might feel that if it made him happy, I’d be willing to.
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I generally don’t go to a hotel with my partner when she’s on her period. Usually, she’ll tell me her period has started and ask to reschedule the date.
That said, there was one time when a woman showed up with tissues tucked into her underwear because her period had started while she was at work on the day we were supposed to meet. I went to a convenience store to buy tampons, and she let me experience inserting one for her.
Afterward, while we were chatting in the hotel room we’d booked, she said she felt bad taking the allowance without doing anything, so she offered to make it up to me and took care of me orally.
There’s no way for us to know what that man is thinking. I also don’t know whether pay-per-meeting is better. Talk it over with him.
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