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Jan 17, 2023 02:03
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We start without a condom and put one on partway through.
I don’t have any problems down there when I have sex with my other papas.
Could it be that starting without a condom causes bacteria from that papa to get transferred to me? If anyone has a good solution, I’d appreciate your advice.
7 answers
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彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
That’s scary. I’m surprised you’ve continued with this.
Both the person asking the question and their papa (a male supporter) should go to the hospital and get tested as soon as possible.
Taking action quickly is the most important thing.
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
You’re having unprotected sex with men who aren’t even your boyfriend because you want to get sick, right?
Men who want to have unprotected sex are like COVID—they think they won’t catch it themselves.
They also think that even if they do catch something, it’ll only be a mild case.
Unfortunately, you’re pretty much the same.
Other
I hate this… It’s disgusting.
Other
Don’t you think you should go get tested?
Please go to a clinic first. You’re continuing to have adult relationships with other men while thinking, “Something feels off,” aren’t you? Don’t you realize you could be passing it on to other men?
As for a good solution…
Don’t do it without protection. Go to a clinic.
Please take better care of yourself.
Other
Are you stupid? The only solution is “don’t do it bareback.”
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I think the first thing you should do is get tested right away. You can only start thinking about a solution once you’ve identified the problem.
If the test confirms that having sex with this man causes bacterial vaginosis or a yeast infection, then the best solution would be to avoid having sex with him.
Other
How can you be this stupid?
Even a little bareback is still bareback. As long as you’re saying things like “some papa,” you absolutely shouldn’t be doing it. If you think of it as “the papa’s filthy germs,” why would you allow an act that can transmit them? You should understand that the only reason you’ve made it through life unscathed so far is that you’ve simply been lucky. What you’re doing is basically unprotected full-service sex work. Are you getting tested properly? Since you’re casually asking about it here despite having obvious symptoms, I’d say you’re probably carrying plenty of STIs without realizing it.
I’m not saying you can never go bare, but if you’re going to do it, understand the risks and accept the consequences before taking that step. Drama comes from stepping forward with a proper understanding of the danger. If you’re too stupid to grasp that, you’d be better off sticking to fūzoku with training wheels. They’ll even provide a bicycle with stabilizers.
Oh, right—compliance. Yes, anyway, absolutely no going bare. And get tested for STIs regularly. That’s all.
Taro