I’m the person who previously asked whether three hours of sex was too long.
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The allowance is ¥70,000, and I’m ranked Platinum.
¥70,000 is a lot for me—I used to see my papas for ¥50,000.
I’ve never met a good papa before; they’ve all had pretty unusual preferences.
- He demanded sex while making me drink alcohol endlessly mouth-to-mouth.
- He demanded that we travel by bullet train every time. Despite keeping me for hours, he only paid one allowance.
- He demanded that I lick inside his anus as well.
Those are the only kinds of men I’ve been able to meet.
Since registering last year, I’ve received around 15 offers. But they’ve all been from men with strong quirks, so nothing has lasted very long.
I’m curious what kinds of arrangements other women in the same rank have.
My ideal papa would meet for around five or six hours, with sex lasting no more than an hour. We’d see each other two or three times a month, he’d have good hygiene, and I’d feel comfortable talking with him.
I’ve never met anyone like that. Am I expecting too much?
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With that many offers, and if everyone’s got such strong quirks, I can see why you’d start to hate doing papa-katsu. Poor thing.
I feel bad saying this to the questioner, but if there are really that many papas like that, it makes my being an ideal supporter stand out even more.
Oh, but I’m the type who prefers two rounds for an adult relationship, so I’d want at least two hours in bed, with about a 30-minute warm-up in between.
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The date lasts around three hours in total, with about an hour and a half at the hotel, and the intimate part lasting no more than 15 minutes.
My allowance is 40,000–80,000 yen. I’m often told I have beautiful skin, and I don’t have any unusual preferences, so I guess I’m considered one of the better options.
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I think you may be unintentionally attracting papas with particularly strong quirks.
For example, do you happen to have your dating type set to D?
If not, I’m sorry.
This is just my personal opinion as a male member, but the closer a woman’s type is to B, the more like a genuine newcomer she tends to be, and the higher the barrier to dating her.
Women in category B generally don’t let themselves be swayed by an allowance, and if something makes them uncomfortable, they’ll clearly refuse.
Conversely, the closer the type is to D, the more focused she is on the allowance, but the lower the barrier to dating becomes.
As a result, my impression is that if a man offers an allowance the woman considers satisfactory, she’ll be willing to go along with what he says to some extent.
For reference, my dates usually last three to five hours, and the intimate part takes about two hours, including foreplay and pillow talk.
I meet someone about once a month, and I’d say I’m reasonably clean and well-groomed.
I mainly seek out women in category B (with category C every few times, and category D only once in the past), but recently I’ve been making more offers to category A.
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If you get good at presenting yourself, I think you can meet men who are a good match for you.
I’ve been using dating sites longer, but I thought about how you can change your approach to club activities on your own.
1. Sometimes you go through a streak where you keep meeting bad people, and other times things go really well, so luck is a factor too.
2. Your profile, comments, letter exchanges, and photos can attract people with strong quirks. If it were me, I’d redo them so they’re more likely to attract the type of person I’m looking for.
3. When things aren’t going well, it’s easy to panic. But if you force yourself to go through with something even when you’re thinking, “Wait, is this okay?” there’s a high chance you’ll end up having a terrible experience. Even if money is tight, it’s better not to go.
You might also want to talk to the staff at your branch.
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This is only based on my own experience, but an awful experience like the “three hours of sex” situation you described happened about once in every ten encounters—two at most.
So if you’ve had 15 offers and almost all of them were from people with strong quirks, I’d say you’ve been extremely unlucky. That sounds rough…
I was probably on the Black or Secret tier, and I took a break soon after receiving fewer than ten offers, so please keep in mind that my sample size is small.
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After reading your post, I thought, “That’s totally me!”
But then I realized a lot of people feel pretty much the same way! lol
There also seem to be quite a few different types of men, so the men at these dating clubs really are a diverse bunch. lol
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I can only share my own experience, so I’m not sure how helpful this will be…
For adult relationships (intimate), pay-per-meeting allowances proposed by them:
- 3 people offered 5
- 1 offered 6
- 1 offered 8
- 1 offered 10
For dinner-only (no intimacy) papas:
- 1 offered 2 per meeting
- 1 offered 3 per meeting
This doesn’t necessarily match the number of people I actually dated. I also turned down some people without asking about the allowance.
One arrangement that started as pay-per-meeting eventually became a monthly arrangement, and I ended up receiving more than I had per meeting. On the other hand, even with an allowance of 10, one person made unreasonable requests, so we parted ways after a few meetings…
If it’s a papa I genuinely like, I’m happy to spend the whole day with him. I’ve also met papas outside of dating clubs who give me 20 per meeting, or dinner-only papas who buy me spending money, New Year’s gifts, and presents.
I don’t date people who make me uncomfortable, so I’ve been able to continue having fun.
By the way, through Universe, I found a wonderful papa about one out of every five times.
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It’s not a rank; it’s a class.
One of the women I’m seeing is Platinum, so I’ll describe a typical date with her:
- An allowance of ¥50,000 per meeting
- We meet about once a month, depending on when she contacts me
- Our dates usually last around four hours
- Sex usually lasts just under an hour
- We only kiss when she puckers up and asks for it
- I’ve never invited her on a trip. If she says she wants to go somewhere, I’ll go with her
- I’ve never asked her to lick my anus, but after she tried it and realized I liked it, she now licks the outside. I don’t like it when she puts her tongue inside, so I tell her to stop if she gets too forceful
I won’t mention cleanliness or how easy I am to talk to, since those aren’t things you should promote about yourself. But whenever we meet, we have lively conversations, she suggests unconventional activities, and she has even shown me intimate videos she made with a fuck buddy, so I think we’re quite close.
Since she seems particular about class, I used a Platinum woman as an example, but my relationships with Gold, Black, and salon women are generally similar.
This woman meets me once a month, but I also have others I meet two to four times a month. I don’t currently have a Standard partner, but I don’t think things would be any different with a Standard woman.
I didn’t think my expectations were particularly high.
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> We usually meet for around five or six hours, and sex lasts less than an hour.
> We see each other about two or three times a month, and he’s clean, easy to talk to, and comfortable to be around.
I think that’s pretty normal.
Generally speaking:
We meet for around four or five hours—sometimes as little as two hours or as long as half a day—and sex lasts under 40 minutes. In actual terms, it’s usually about 30–40 minutes, though it can be around an hour with someone who takes longer. If we’re compatible, I don’t need oral sex or extra stimulation from her. (If we’re not compatible, though, I can’t manage without oral sex.)
We meet about four or five times a month—up to three or four times a week if it’s frequent—and feel comfortable spending time together.
Something like that, I guess…
Oh, but when it comes to the important part—the allowance—some women say 60,000, 70,000, or even 100,000 yen, but they won’t continue unless it’s at least 50,000 yen, so the terms might not be all that favorable…
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