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I’m going to be taken by my papa to Dior Café for afternoon tea.

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I’m really happy about it, but would afternoon tea seem out of place for papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan)? It’s mostly women there, so I can’t help worrying about people staring…
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Isn’t afternoon tea full of papa-katsu couples these days? Marika
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If it were me, I’d be worried about what people around me thought. I’d end up imagining, “What if I’m surrounded by groups of elegant ladies on both sides? 😂” I have afternoon tea in a private room. I do like sweets, so I’ve gone for afternoon tea with my monthly arrangement partner several times.
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I do go to those kinds of afternoon teas when a woman takes me. I can’t help feeling self-conscious about people watching me, though… Restaurants and department stores full of women generally don’t bother me much, but afternoon tea—somewhere I’d never go alone—makes me feel uneasy.
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I didn’t know Dior had an afternoon tea either!? Thanks for the great tip ♪ I’ll go there with my partner sometime. That said, I do go for afternoon tea. I’ve been to places like Cerulean and Four Seasons, among others. At relatively upscale afternoon teas, it’s not just women—there are plenty of couples too, so I don’t think you’ll feel out of place. If you’d feel out of place on an afternoon tea date, you probably already stand out on your regular lunch or dinner dates anyway (lol).
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I think whether it feels out of place depends on the vibe between the two of you.
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Oh, nice! If anything, I’d love to tag along! If it makes you happy, I think you should just enjoy yourself without worrying about what other people think. You probably won’t be seeing the people around you again anyway, so they can think whatever they want. Personally, I don’t let it bother me. Ahh, if you were my friend, I’d say, “I’d go with you—invite me!” Have fun!
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