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Nov 14, 2022 12:59
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🏅 パパ活歴8年目突入
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Age: 50s
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There could be all kinds of reasons.
If you don’t want to hear from him, just block him.
For example, he may have been dumped by a woman he had a monthly arrangement with and, since he wants to have sex right away, is reaching out as a last resort.
I also occasionally contact women I’ve parted ways with.
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I’ve never reached out first after ending things, but two past partners have contacted me and we ended up getting back together.
I don’t know what was going through their minds, but if you want to see them, meet up; if you don’t, then don’t.
For the record, I was the one who got dumped both times.
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🏅 ４０歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現ＡＩ界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
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Emails like that are called “Zao Lull emails.” Zao Lull is a spell that revives a fallen party member with a certain probability. Its higher-level version, Zao Rik, revives them 100% of the time—so the term “Zao Rik email” doesn’t exist.
In other words, it means reaching out even though you don’t expect much, just in case. If you get a response, consider yourself lucky.
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My answer is pretty much the same as Kazu’s, but I think he probably just wondered how she was doing and wanted to see her again after a long time.
Even when an arrangement ends, I don’t cut off contact right away. However, if we haven’t been in touch for about six months, I may reach out.
That said, if the other person doesn’t contact me, I won’t contact her first.
There was one woman I continued exchanging messages with even after our arrangement ended, but for the reason mentioned above, we’ve lost touch now.
Age: Private
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He probably just wanted to see you again after all this time. What else could it be?
Based on what can be inferred from your question, I suspect he stopped contacting you because he thought you were a difficult woman who tended to read too much into what people said. But after two years, he likely forgot about it and reached out again.
I don’t contact them myself, but it’s quite common for women to get in touch after a year or two.