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Nov 14, 2022 12:59
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🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
There could be all kinds of reasons.
If you don’t want to hear from him, just block him.
For example, he may have been dumped by a woman he had a monthly arrangement with and, since he wants to have sex right away, is reaching out as a last resort.
I also occasionally contact women I’ve parted ways with.
Other
I’ve never reached out first after ending things, but two past partners have contacted me and we ended up getting back together.
I don’t know what was going through their minds, but if you want to see them, meet up; if you don’t, then don’t.
For the record, I was the one who got dumped both times.
🏅 ４０歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現ＡＩ界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
Emails like that are called “Zao Lull emails.” Zao Lull is a spell that revives a fallen party member with a certain probability. Its higher-level version, Zao Rik, revives them 100% of the time—so the term “Zao Rik email” doesn’t exist.
In other words, it means reaching out even though you don’t expect much, just in case. If you get a response, consider yourself lucky.
👨 Male
Universe member
My answer is pretty much the same as Kazu’s, but I think he probably just wondered how she was doing and wanted to see her again after a long time.
Even when an arrangement ends, I don’t cut off contact right away. However, if we haven’t been in touch for about six months, I may reach out.
That said, if the other person doesn’t contact me, I won’t contact her first.
There was one woman I continued exchanging messages with even after our arrangement ended, but for the reason mentioned above, we’ve lost touch now.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
He probably just wanted to see you again after all this time. What else could it be?
Based on what can be inferred from your question, I suspect he stopped contacting you because he thought you were a difficult woman who tended to read too much into what people said. But after two years, he likely forgot about it and reached out again.
I don’t contact them myself, but it’s quite common for women to get in touch after a year or two.