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Oct 17, 2022 20:01
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A～Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月１程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
Intimacy is something you learn together, so I think it’s important to tell your partner what feels good and what doesn’t.
If a man gets angry about that, it’s best to end things with him.
To be blunt, women often hold back and put up with discomfort to avoid offending men, which is why inexperienced men remain inexperienced.
This tendency is especially noticeable among female sex workers.
These days, I almost never cause a woman discomfort, but I improved through the things my ex-wife told me during our intimate relationship.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを！
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中！
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです！
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
You should say it right away, in the moment, rather than holding back.
It’s perfectly fine to be honest about it.
However, since this is a club arrangement, if your physical compatibility is poor and you’re in a relationship where you can’t even say something like that, while the only thing you feel is that your personalities match well, then honestly, the right thing to do would be to end it if possible.
The man may actually feel that the physical compatibility is lacking even more than you do.
In that case, there’s a risk that even one comment could come across as criticism. The lack of compatibility might become impossible to fix.
If you were truly compatible, you probably would have been able to say it by now.
Also:
> My personality match with my papa is perfect.
In a club arrangement, it’s normal for both people to be considerate of each other and achieve their respective goals.
Other
That’s not necessarily the case, so I think it’s better to communicate openly and properly. Especially if your personalities are a good match.
Other
I’m not the type to say it out loud.
Instead, I find myself enjoying the differences in people’s preferences and the way they like to play.
Before I know it, I usually find that their style just starts to feel natural to me. (*^^*)
🏅 ４０歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現ＡＩ界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
That man may think piston is the only way. I used to think so too.
But ever since I discovered grigri, I’m definitely a grigri girl now.
Please teach him about grigri.
Age: 60s
👨 Male
Universe member
They probably think they’re moving pretty vigorously.
Since it feels good to them—and some partners have been satisfied—they may not realize that it doesn’t feel right to you.
Everyone has different preferences and chemistry, so it’s definitely better to be honest about it.