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Sep 29, 2022 20:33
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🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
Conversely, what kind of sex is the questioner looking for?
If all you’re doing is lending out a hole, that’s no different from a sex doll, right?
If papa has another woman he can cuddle and be affectionate with, he’ll probably go to her instead.
Other
Maybe he wanted to get a little affectionate because you were exactly his type, even at your first meeting〜 ٩(｡•ω•｡*)و ♡♡
This could be your chance to grow closer!
Other
I’m not sure what the exact definition is, but in my experience, things have often gone that way from the very first day.
The women I was with didn’t seem confused the way you do; they seemed to feel the same way. If it was all an act, then hats off to them—that’s perfectly fine too（笑）. Naturally, we’re still seeing each other.
Since you’re feeling so confused, I get the impression that she wasn’t someone you should have done that with in the first place. You probably weren’t that compatible either, so I doubt the relationship will continue.
Also, I couldn’t help wondering whether you haven’t had much luck with women. My apologies if you’re actually very popular.
A～Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月１程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I don’t picture myself having lovey-dovey sex at a sex-service establishment.
I don’t particularly want lovey-dovey sex either, but for now, I feel like I’d rather not cross paths with the person who asked this question.
Other
I’m not sure about the age or whether she works in the adult-entertainment industry, but based solely on the fact that you didn’t notice she was uncomfortable with the physical affection, you may come across as inexperienced with dating or someone who has trouble reading personal boundaries.
I think it also means you were able to make your partner feel that good!
👨 Male
Universe member
It’s probably best to just accept that some men are like that.
I don’t think things like having used sex services, not being popular with women, or age have anything to do with it.
Other
Is the person asking the question in her 50s?
She’s just over the moon because she met someone wonderful.
Just think of it as cute.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I think that’s simply their personal preference.
Are people who are so quick to jump to conclusions just idiots?