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Aug 21, 2022 22:09
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I’ve considered registering with a dating club again, but I was warned that my existing papas might find out. So I’m wondering if there are any ways to meet someone outside of a club.
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There are plenty of wealthy men, so simply meeting one isn’t all that difficult. You can find them on apps, and there are also many at dating clubs. However, whether they’ll want to give you a generous allowance is another matter.
You could hide your current papa and register again, or try a different dating club or an app. After that, I think it’ll depend on you.
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
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After all, a questioner won’t get noticed unless she goes to places where extremely generous papas tend to be.
If you live outside a major city and don’t have opportunities to meet particularly wealthy men, apps seem to be about the only option besides a club.
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
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A wealthy, well-endowed papa (a male supporter)?
You probably won’t find one even if you look—they’re about as rare as a Mythical Zoan.
You might find someone who’s wealthy but small, or poor but well-endowed, though. Anyway, I really went all out with a terrible joke first thing this morning.
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I’m with Rin!
What are you getting wrong? The papa right in front of you is a truly generous (well-paying) papa!
Think it over carefully, and try to build a good relationship with the papa in front of you.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中!
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです!
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
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If a woman is alone somewhere men can approach her, there’s always a possibility—whether at her workplace or as a customer.
That said, some men may think, “I wish I’d known this before joining the club,” or prefer a woman who isn’t registered with a club…
If that’s the case, it’s probably best to give up once you’ve joined a club.
In other words, even very generous (well-paying) papas may avoid women who think the way you do…
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Oh wow, I was just about to ask how to spot a sugar baby who’s keeping her existing papa (a male supporter) while looking for an additional generous (well-paying) papa, too lol. What a coincidence lol.
Let’s both do our best haha.
Other
How about signing up with The Salon or another dating club?
In regional areas, I get the impression that there are people who are like long-established local dignitaries. You might want to look for a place where you can meet that kind of person.
If you’re lucky, you might meet someone through an app, too. I’ve had enough of them and canceled all my accounts now, but before joining a club, I used an app where I met executives from major IT companies everyone knows, as well as CEOs of companies with annual sales in the hundreds of billions of yen.
This is only based on what I’ve seen, but the extremely generous supporters who offer an allowance in the triple-digit range per month often seem to come with their own sacrifices… Also, there aren’t many who are that generous from the very beginning; I think women often have to put in a fair amount of effort to cultivate that kind of relationship.
Other
I think it’s best to re-register with your profile hidden.
The girls you’re meant to meet can be found anywhere. It’s not because you’re in a rural area.
Men’s desires can be incredibly powerful—when they absolutely want to meet someone, they’ll either have her come to them or fly out to meet her themselves.
Marika
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What are these super-generous papas like, I wonder?
Maybe they pay ¥2 million a month?!
I’ve never met one, so I have no idea where they are… But I think it’s best to value the papas you already have.
There’s nothing wrong with wanting better terms—in fact, it’s only natural. But I don’t think super-generous papas are that easy to find, and there’s no guarantee they’ll like you enough to continue seeing you.
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Why not have your profile hidden and then re-register, or sign up with another dating club?
A generous papa? I’d like to know that myself.
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People who are going to meet someone naturally do so and already have it covered, so the fact that you’re asking others tells me the answer is probably nowhere.
It’s about as foolish a question as, “Where can I meet a young, sexy, classy beauty who’ll sleep with me for free?”