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Aug 17, 2022 13:59
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From a woman’s perspective, isn’t it less unsettling when you can at least get an idea of what he looks like?
By the way, are the men who post photos generally confident, attractive older guys?} у 手机天天彩票. Maybe
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Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
Same as Kamihikoki—I’d leave immediately if posting a photo became mandatory.
I’m not exactly a handsome older guy myself, but I don’t think everyone who posts a photo is one, either.
There are plenty of beautiful women who post blurred photos, too.
People who don’t post photos simply have their reasons for not wanting to.
Other
I’ve only looked at listings in Osaka, but around 20–30% of them include photos. Some are pictures of their cars rather than their faces, and some show them playing golf.
I don’t think photos are really necessary.
More importantly, focus on developing your hobbies. You might even make me want to click “What a lovely person.”
👨 Male
Universe member
I don’t have a photo posted either. I haven’t included one on the profile that’s only shown to women I’ve made an offer to.
Even without a photo, women still turn down my offers—so what would happen if I posted one? Haha.
You’ll just have to wait until we meet…
Other
Photos aren’t necessary! With a letter date, you can exchange recent selfies beforehand, too ✿
If you chat on LINE while getting ready to meet, it’s not that nerve-racking (๑>∀<๑)♥
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中!
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです!
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I don’t have a photo posted.
Whether I’m handsome or unattractive, I wouldn’t post one.
If I ever had to upload a photo, I’d quit immediately.
But I’ve been thinking about why I don’t post one…
I’d probably choose a photo that makes me look somewhat better than I actually do, and seeing it could raise someone’s expectations before we meet—or even lower them if I don’t live up to it.
Maybe without a photo, they can feel a little more at ease knowing I wasn’t anything too shocking, since they came prepared for the worst. At least their expectations won’t be raised, I suppose…
Other
This is just my general impression, but I’d say it’s roughly:
- 10% with clearly recognizable face photos
- 10% with more atmospheric photos, such as pictures with pets
- 10% using an avatar or some kind of profile setting
- 70% with no photo or profile setting at all
From a woman’s perspective, having a photo is reassuring, but if it looks too carefully posed, I start to wonder if he’s overly confident. And if he’s using Snow to add ears, a beard, or something like that, I have to admit it’s a bit of a turnoff… lol
So personally, I’d recommend a more atmospheric photo. I also find profiles with no setting more appealing than avatars!
That’s just my personal opinion, though.
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I don’t post photos.
As you said, I know it can make people feel very uneasy, so I do think I should post one.
However, I deliberately make myself look as intimidating as possible before the first meeting, so I can see how effective it was and enjoy the contrast.
So, as much as I apologize, I lower expectations as much as possible and let them arrive feeling really nervous. Then, when the woman’s face suddenly lights up upon seeing me at the first meeting, I quietly celebrate to myself.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I only share my photo with women I’ve made an offer to.
As you said, I think seeing what someone looks like beforehand helps ease any anxiety.
It’s not that I’m especially confident about my looks—I’d say I’m pretty average.