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Aug 12, 2022 17:39
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I have a papa who gives me 30,000 yen pay-per-meeting for two and a half hours over dinner plus up to one hour in a room. Would you say those are good terms? It’s hard to ask other papas for advice about whether he’s a good one…
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🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
There’s so much to pick apart here. Is this just a fantasy?
The meals last a while, lol.
He actually takes a shower.
He actually washes properly with soap.
It makes me worry.
Is the papa a really premature ejaculator?
Since the sex sounds easy,
he’d probably be considered a good papa by papa-katsu women who are emotionally checked out.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
Reading the women’s responses reminded me of how, after injecting my cock and repeatedly thrusting it into the spots they liked without pulling out, I started getting asked for injection play from time to time afterward.
I’m satisfied after coming once, so it’s a little tough for me.
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
If you think he’s a good papa (male supporter), then he’s a good papa.
That’s not something for other people to decide, is it?
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中!
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです!
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
You should be the one to decide. If he’s a good papa, shouldn’t you be able to discuss it with him?
Other
Female member Potassium here.
My answer is exactly the same as Rin’s and Misaki’s, so I’ll leave it at that. Besides, the wording is already so beautiful that I couldn’t express it any better.
So I’ll answer from a slightly different angle. (`・ω・´)ゞ
If you’re worried about the going rate for the allowance, then let’s talk in terms of the real world.
If it’s ¥300,000 for three and a half hours… and you met twice a month, that would be ¥600,000 a month… over 12 months… so, what would your annual income be?
Would that put you above the answerer’s annual income?
Oh—how does that amount compare with the average annual income in society?
But of course, a good chunk still gets taken in taxes!
*Working hours not taken into account.*
It’s a shame my brain couldn’t calculate the actual tax amount, though…
Anyway, that was my personal theory… I think?
Other
Isn’t the dinner portion kind of long?
If the adult relationship is supposed to be over within an hour, do they see me as nothing more than a hole?
Other
If the balance between dinner and room time were reversed, he’d be a fairly decent papa.
Maybe not quite a good papa, but I’d barely let him make the papa list.
I wouldn’t see a guy who finishes in under an hour in the room even for 100 pay-per-meeting.
Marika
美惺(みさと)
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Other
No way, that’s not good at all!
Two and a half hours for dinner is fine, but less than an hour in the room—isn’t that way too short? You wouldn’t be able to enjoy it at all. Once you factor in showering before and after, there’d barely be any time left.
I used to see a dentist who would meet me at a hotel for two hours between appointments, but he was always rushing and finished way too quickly, so I couldn’t enjoy myself at all and eventually ended things.
If you’re going to have an adult relationship (intimate), don’t you want to be thoroughly loved by someone you actually like?
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
For a lowball papa offering ¥300,000, you should turn him down with something like, “People as poor as you should come back when you can afford it.”
Normally, you have about three other pay-per-meeting papas offering ¥50,000, right?
Other
I get the impression that you view papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) more like a job. If that’s the case, three and a half hours for ¥300,000 sounds like a pretty good gig.
Personally, I wouldn’t want to force myself into seeing someone, no matter how much they offered. But if he were someone I genuinely wanted to see and he still gave me such a generous allowance, I might get serious and start wanting him all to myself.
If you consider him a good papa (male supporter), then no matter what anyone else says, he’s a good papa for you. Everyone is looking for something different, after all.
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
Let me answer as someone who doesn’t go by the nickname “Mr. Allowance.”
A papa like that is extinct in the dating clubs—there isn’t a single one. So I think it’s fair to call him a Jurassic papa. “Generous” doesn’t even begin to describe it.
If we’re talking in terms of penises, he’d be over 20 cm long and more than 5 cm in diameter. Have Marika decide whether he qualifies as a generous papa.
A pay-per-meeting allowance of 300,000 yen probably only exists outside the clubs. You won’t find one at Universe or TheSalon.
Ah, I take that back. There’s one in Nagoya and two in Kobe.