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Jul 19, 2022 16:58
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Also, what kind of mindset does a man have to be able to say that if you can enjoy yourself, it’s cheap?
We’re talking about traveling with men in their 40s or old men in their 50s, and having sex with them.
Don’t you think a lot of girls pretend to enjoy it—and convince themselves they do—because they’re doing it for the money?
I have one more question.
Why is it that I get wet and it feels good when I have sex with men in their 30s, but sex with men in their 40s or 50s and older doesn’t feel good, and I can’t stay wet?
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🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
There are all kinds of people, and some are happy with that allowance. Since you’re getting 50 or 100, doesn’t what other people receive really matter to you?
If you can’t stay lubricated, it sounds painful and I feel sorry for you.
Please clearly state in your profile:
“Please send offers from men in their 30s. I can’t do older men in their 40s or grandpas in their 50s.”
That way, neither you nor the papas will have to feel uncomfortable.
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Huh?
Wasn’t this question created for casual conversation, so I guess this is where we chat?
Anyway, meeting up at Haneda Airport and taking the bullet train to Hakodate is pretty amazing.
But when you think of it as enjoying the journey, I can’t help wondering if that person might actually be living a more luxurious life.
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
Joe, I enjoyed your previous column.
Even though you’re at Haneda Airport, you’re heading to Shin-Hakodate-Hokuto Station instead of Hakodate Airport. Now that’s really going the extra mile—good for you.
🏅 手コキ評論家
入会して8年。いまだ彷徨中です
Age: 60s
👨 Male
Universe member
Well, I had a feeling that might be the case, but are you really just “pretending to enjoy yourself”?! In that case, you could’ve just turned me down. Joe is too easy on himself, so I’m going to pretend not to notice and head to Hakodate this weekend.
Joe’s trips are pretty niche. We’ll meet at Haneda Airport, then take the Hokkaido Shinkansen from Tokyo Station to Hakodate. Naturally, we’re booked in GranClass. In Hakodate, we’re going for Italian food. I can’t say this too loudly, but it’s incredibly delicious—though if you ask whether it’s worth going all the way to Hakodate for, I’d feel a little awkward answering.
We’re staying overnight in Hakodate, then heading out first thing the next morning before going our separate ways (lol). Apparently, the girls are busy after that. Joe is too, though.
Other
Just being in my 30s makes this question feel like a disadvantage, lol.
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I think there are plenty of older guys who became papas without having much dating experience when they were younger, and now mistakenly believe they’re popular.
No matter how much experience they gain as a papa, they still have absolutely no understanding of how girls feel. It’s honestly painful to watch.
That said, I get the feeling that not a single one of them would give the questioner 100,000 yen for a trip.
👨 Male
Universe member
Everyone in a dating club—men and women alike—is confident. Since you’re seeing each other in that environment, the important thing is to communicate openly and make the arrangement work for both of you.
If you feel it won’t work, don’t continue seeing them!
Other
When I said, “Why not try asking for 100?” in my previous question, I was of course joking! (lol)
Try turning him down indirectly ✧*。٩(ˊᗜˋ*)و✧*。
Even with someone aged 30–80, I think it really comes down to chemistry.
Other
Men in their 30s are still pretty inexperienced, so I prefer men in their 40s to 60s.
Are there really people who give 50,000 to 100,000 yen? My travel expenses keep piling up, too.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
Most people here are just sharing their opinions, but I’ll answer your question anyway(笑)
On the other hand, some women don’t really get turned on by men in their 20s or 30s, so it’s simply a matter of your personal preferences.