Aren’t you all fulfilling more than just your financial needs through sex—like the loneliness in your hearts?

I get it. It’s lonely, isn’t it… Basically, it’s not like we ever really get hugged, right? Sometimes you just want to fill that loneliness, too :(›´ω`‹ ):

I’m not seeing women to fill some emotional void. I just want to have sex because it’s enjoyable.

I’ve never felt lonely, and I’m so emotionally broken that not even the most beautiful woman could ever capture my heart. Going through too much hardship isn’t good for you... I wish I could fall genuinely in love with someone. If there were someone who could make me truly fall for her, I’d give her everything I own.

I feel lonely sometimes too. When I do, I want someone to hold me. Even on days when I go out with my papa, we secretly hug and kiss somewhere private. Just that is enough to make me feel happy. I wish I could give you a big hug too.

Sex feels less like a way to fill an emotional void and more like one way to connect with someone I care about. Actually, I don’t think I’ve ever felt emotionally lonely in my life. I do feel pain and hardship, but when work and my personal life are busy, I stop feeling lonely. So why not work hard enough that you don’t even have time to indulge in that kind of sentiment? There are often girls who say things like, “I’m scared of getting older,” but as I mentioned above, if you’ve been living desperately since your teens, you shouldn’t have the time to worry about that either. Whether it’s work, hobbies, or anything else, the more seriously you commit yourself to something, the more you encounter the disadvantages and unfairness that come with being young, don’t you? Youth is rarely an advantage at work. Don’t you want to build up experience and grow as quickly as possible? In any case, if you’re afraid of getting older, I think the answer is to devote yourself wholeheartedly to something and stop living each day on autopilot. The joy of gaining experience, the joy of helping younger colleagues grow, and the excitement of change—these are things you can only experience as you get older. They can also free you from the brainwashing that a woman’s only value lies in her youth. Instead of wasting time going on and on here, try taking action. I’m rooting for you.

> Aren’t you all using sex to fulfill your emotional loneliness, not just to make money? That’s true! There aren’t any young people around me whom I see regularly, so... I suppose that could be part of it too... > I seek out men to fill the loneliness inside me, but I’m afraid of getting older, so I honestly want to die soon. There are good things about getting older, too. In my case, I’m busy with work every day, but I no longer have to work just because someone orders me to. It’s not exactly an easygoing job, but I feel more fulfilled than I did when I was younger（笑） Besides seeking out men, you should look for something—anything—that suits you and that you enjoy. The more things you find to pursue, the busier you’ll be, but it’ll also be fun.