I won’t meet a woman—even one I’ve seen many times—unless I’m dressed sharply myself. But for women, it’s totally fine to come in casual clothes, whether it’s the first meeting or the fiftieth.
One of my monthly arrangements has practically no fashion sense, but she’s incredible once her clothes come off, so I don’t mind at all. If anything, I find it pretty exciting.
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Since it’s your first meeting, I think you should show up looking as attractive as possible.
If you genuinely look great in pants, then that’s fine. But if not, you should change. Even if you ask the man beforehand and get his approval, that only means he’s willing to accept it. His attitude may change depending on whether he actually feels excited when he meets you. Don’t lose sight of what really matters.
Why not leave a change of clothes in a coin locker and change somewhere? Or ask to push the meeting back a little because you need to go home and change. If you’re going to ask the man for permission, I think that would be the better thing to ask permission for.
I once met a woman an hour and forty minutes later than the originally agreed time. Technically, she may have broken the rules, but she contacted me directly by SMS before we met that day, apologized for making it later, and kept me updated from time to time. We exchanged so many messages before meeting that we started to feel somewhat close. When we finally met, she was attractive, and although the schedule was tight that day, I was actually very excited rather than upset about her being late.
I think there’s a huge difference in the results between someone who simply follows the rules and manual, and someone who thinks about what they can do to captivate the other person. I hope you’ll take that into consideration and think carefully before deciding.
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Some men are disappointed if you’re not wearing a skirt.
That said, given the circumstances, many of them would probably understand if they knew beforehand. So it might be a good idea to ask the Universe staff to check with your date, saying something like:
“I’ll be coming straight from work, so I’ll have to wear pants. Could you ask him if that would be okay?”
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I think it would be considerate to the gentleman to check with him through the staff in advance. If there’s a specific reason you need to wear pants, explaining that as well will probably make it easier for him to understand!
Since you mentioned it’s office casual rather than a suit, maybe you could change just your bottoms before heading out on the date—that might look a bit more polished. Personally, I’d just change the bottoms, haha.
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I wouldn’t mind, but if it’s something they can confirm, I think it might be worth asking the staff to check.
That said, wouldn’t being told no make you lose interest before even meeting him?
Since you’re asking this kind of question, I get the impression you may find such things a hassle. In any case, a relationship with someone you have to force yourself to accommodate probably won’t last, so if he says no, you can just take the transportation allowance and leave.
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Universe Club Customer Success representative Karasaki here as well.
Many men are understanding when it comes to weekday evenings, but it’s best to explain the situation in advance and confirm with them to avoid any misunderstandings.
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