What kinds of dates do you go on besides meals and shopping?
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I’d love to hear your ideas for reference—both men and women.
I feel like having a variety of activities keeps things from getting boring and makes dating more enjoyable, so I’m experimenting and trying different things.
I usually plan our dates around her preferences and mine at roughly a 2:1 ratio.
She’s really into physical activities, so every now and then we do things together that get us moving and working up a sweat. I also end up trying things I probably wouldn’t do on my own.
As a result, I’ve lost weight and even flattened my stomach. It’s a win-win: we get to enjoy sharing new experiences, and I’m getting healthier too, which makes me pretty happy.
If the allowance is the same for an adult relationship and just a regular date, she’ll probably be willing to go along with anything.
Since my allowance changes depending on whether there’s an adult relationship, I don’t go on dates other than dinner and a hotel with women I’ve already been intimate with.
(If her period starts unexpectedly, then it’s dinner only.)
Before we became intimate, I sometimes took them to karaoke, and we also went on dates to the zoo or aquarium.
I’ve never gone shopping with them because I’d just end up being hit up for money—and I don’t like shopping in the first place.
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I enjoy looking at art, so I often go to museums with girls I’ve gotten close to.
Recently, I went to the “Modigliani Exhibition” at the Nakanoshima Museum of Art in Osaka. I highly recommend it if you like art.
Other than that, I’d say hiking. I have one mountain-loving girl I go with, and we climb a mountain once a month.
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Since we can’t really let our hair down when we’re staying within our usual neighborhoods, even a short trip somewhere is nice.
When we’re traveling, there’s none of the usual worrying, so we can spend carefree, enjoyable time together. It makes for a genuinely fun date. Of course, I never discuss the allowance amount just because we’re traveling. If a girl brings it up, I don’t continue seeing her in the first place.
It’s also fun when the presence of a girl from the club inspires me to start a new business, like the girl I wrote about in my column who isn’t associated with the club, or when we get involved in each other’s work. I’m even allowed to indulge in the faint dream that someday the new business alone might keep bringing in more than the allowance.
The woman outside the club who appeared in that column has recently started helping me again, too. It’s not as often as it used to be—about 25 times a month—but our karaoke dates have made a comeback.
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If she’s the active, outgoing type, wouldn’t it be fine to just keep things as they are?
Last Friday, my papa, two of his longtime friends, and I had dinner in Roppongi, then went to a supper club and celebrated with champagne until morning.
On the way home, we all had an Alphard arranged to drive us back, so it was a lot of fun. I can’t really drink much, so I was oddly happy that my papa drank in my place.
I’m not sure you’d call it a date, but I enjoy becoming part of my papa’s everyday life like this.
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I usually go on dates with my papa (a male supporter) that feel more like dates between a couple.
We go to aquariums and stylish cafés, go shopping, watch baseball games, visit hot springs, enjoy hot-stone spas, and so on. With a papa who’s into fine dining, I also go to his favorite restaurants and bars.
We don’t play sports together, but one of my papas is a great golfer, so I enjoy listening to him talk about how he practices. Sometimes I think it would be nice if I could play golf too. If you’re enjoying yourselves together, I’m sure anywhere you go and whatever you do will be fun.
It’s also fun to spend time together deciding where to go next.
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We don’t really go shopping together in the first place.
I’m planning to go for a drive soon in the car my papa bought for me—or, more accurately, covered two-thirds of the cost of. We also play golf every week.
We sometimes swim in the hotel pool, too. He’s invited me diving in Okinawa, but our schedules haven’t lined up, so it hasn’t happened yet.
I also have another papa I’m planning to go to a hot spring with. He’s invited me on a golf trip over the New Year holidays with some of his friends as well.
When we go on dates on weekday evenings, it usually ends up being dinner plus a hotel, so I’d love to plan some fun activities for our occasional days off.
Marika
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