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Apr 18, 2022 19:36
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https://universe-club.jp/help/questions/view/12990
Looks are the most important thing to me.
I’m looking for a beautiful woman with a good figure.
Her age doesn’t matter.
I’d like an adult relationship (intimate) three or four times a month.
I realize beautiful women are popular and that I may have to accept them seeing multiple people, but I’d like her to devote time and attention to me. How much allowance would I need to offer for her to treat me well?
I’ve had around ten first meetings that led to dinner and then a hotel, but I still haven’t met the kind of woman I’m looking for.
I’m only making offers to women rated Black, because I can’t find anyone I consider beautiful outside the Black category.
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Other
Because you’re only offering “black” arrangements.
That made me laugh. Even if she gave you her LINE, I feel like her replies would be limited to things like, “No,” or “That’s not right.”
If you’re going after beautiful women, I think you need a decent appearance, conversational skills, and income too. Why not send her around ¥100,000 a month through PayPay?
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中!
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです!
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
From a woman’s perspective, a man’s appearance and grooming are the most important things.
I prefer a kind, well-built man who’s caring and makes me feel secure. Age doesn’t matter.
With someone like that, I’d be open to an intimate relationship as often as he wanted each month.
Even if a man in the club is unattractive, he won’t be able to enjoy a good relationship unless the women there are calling him handsome, good-looking, or dashing.
What women dislike are men who think they can do anything as long as they pay.
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入会して8年。いまだ彷徨中です
Age: 60s
👨 Male
Universe member
A beautiful, fit woman who’s willing to see you three or four times a month for In&out. Depending on the allowance, that might not be too difficult.
But once you add messaging every day and the occasional video call, the bar suddenly gets much higher. The biggest issue, though, is that even if you did find someone like that, I doubt you’d stay interested in her. In that sense, it might be difficult.
How about taking your time to build a deeper relationship with a woman who gives you a high level of satisfaction with In&south—and enjoying the time you invest along the way? Either way, it’s going to be an uphill battle.
Other
To begin with, I don’t like people who think that way. I’m not all about the money either—I’m the type who wants to exchange messages on LINE every day.
So I don’t like men like the questioner who are obsessed with money in reverse—those mistaken older men who think they can get everything with money.
In short, I can’t stand them.
I don’t want a relationship without genuine feelings. You probably lose the desire to stay in touch because you’re so self-centered and demanding.
Besides, once a woman becomes a “black-list girl,” she has more leeway and is probably someone who carries herself properly and has pride. I don’t think you’re a good match for her.
👨 Male
Universe member
Haha, yeah, I figured it was probably something like that.
That’s why I keep saying: pretty women are a no-go! (lol)
Oh, right—are you a handsome guy, by any chance? Women will reject your messages and calls if you’re not good-looking. And even if you think you are, it doesn’t count unless the woman you’re seeing thinks so too.
In that sense, dating through an upscale dating club is really on another level. (lol)
Other
One important thing to understand is that keeping up with LINE every day is extremely difficult unless you genuinely like the person, so your first priority should be finding a woman who really likes you. If you don’t have enough appeal yourself, offering a larger allowance can actually make you seem scary and cause her to turn you down.
As for you having met around ten beautiful women through Black and still not finding anyone willing to accept your terms, unfortunately, I think it means that you—including the allowance you’re offering—aren’t appealing enough to them.
If you’re expecting daily LINE messages, phone calls, and an adult relationship three or four times a month, I think many women would consider at least ¥500,000–¥600,000 necessary. Especially if you’re targeting beautiful women who have a lot of competition, the allowance is naturally going to be higher.
Even at a girls’ bar or as a chat hostess, where the work is mainly conversation, a woman can earn ¥10,000 a day, or ¥300,000 a month. If you also expect an adult relationship, then even at ¥50,000 per encounter, four times would be another ¥200,000. So I’d say you’d need at least ¥500,000. It’s hard to imagine a beautiful woman accepting ¥50,000 pay-per-meeting, so if it’s ¥80,000–¥100,000 each time, that comes to ¥320,000–¥400,000 a month, bringing the total to ¥600,000 or more.
Even after spending that much, there’s still a risk that she may betray you or come to dislike you. On the other hand, there are men who can message a woman every day and have her adjust her schedule to theirs whenever needed, without paying ¥500,000 a month.
That’s what a dating club is for.
Other
Hmm, I don’t know… It just feels like a lot of things are off.
I have this sense that it probably won’t work out, but I can’t quite put my finger on what needs to change. I’ll add more if I think of anything.
One thing I can say is that you’re being completely self-centered and not thinking about the other person at all. You keep asking here how much allowance you should offer instead of asking her directly.
Even if you’re prepared for multiple arrangements, if she has to message or video chat with you every day, she won’t have time to go on dates with anyone else.
Try telling your requests to ten women you consider “blacklisted.” Even if you offer the amount they ask for and they still won’t do it, there must be some reason they really don’t want to be involved with you…
In the end, only she knows the truth.
Marika
Other
It’s probably rare to find a beautiful woman with a great figure who only wants to see you. If you also want to message every day and occasionally have video calls, you may need to compromise somewhere.
Alternatively, you could become someone she’d want to stay in touch with above anyone else.
Personally, I’m happy to message someone I like every day. I’d gladly text every day on LINE! So there may be someone like that out there. Keep looking for the right person!
As for how much allowance to offer, I think the best thing is to ask her directly. If you’re willing to pay whatever she asks for, it’s a good idea to ask what she has in mind.
By all means, check out SALON!! I’m sure there are plenty of beautiful women with great figures there!