I tend to end up talking way too much about myself on dates.
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The woman I’m seeing is even more talkative than I am, so I should really be holding back, but before I know it, I’m the one doing all the talking.
Are there any tips for getting her to open up and enjoy talking more?
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I make a point of maintaining eye contact, responding appropriately, and not just listening but asking questions or bringing up topics that encourage the other person to open up. Since my work often involves spending time with talkative company presidents and the like, I’ve gotten used to it.
I think those skills also carry over to the girls I’m seeing. Silence can be awkward when the other person doesn’t say much, so I try to have a few topics in reserve.
On the other hand, people who talk only about themselves—and aren’t interesting to listen to—often avoid eye contact, give half-hearted responses that make you wonder if they’re even listening, or don’t respond at all.
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Many women love to talk, so being a good listener can really work in your favor.
If there’s a trick to it, I’d say it’s showing genuine interest in her and drawing her out with plenty of questions.
The way comedians who keep the conversation moving talk is incredibly helpful to study—like Goto from Football Hour or Fujimon. That’s how I’ve been learning. Ame Talk, London Hearts, and Documental on Amazon Prime are the best study materials.
I’ve heard from several PJ girls that men who go on and on about their achievements are the absolute worst. There’s also a lot we can learn from women♪ (´▽｀)
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I always try to be a good listener（笑）
But I tend to get nervous and start talking a mile a minute, so I have to be careful (/；ω；＼)
It might be important not to interrupt people～꙳★*ﾟ
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When you’re about to say something, wait two seconds. I think that alone can make a big difference.
In papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), women tend to hold back in conversation and prioritize the man, so making an effort to listen as much as possible will likely make you more appealing to her.
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