Tips Apr 6, 2022 16:34

I had a conversation with someone I was seeing, and we decided to take some space.

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It’s only been a week. Is it too soon to reach out and try to get back together? It’s not that either of us has lost interest.
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Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I’m not sure which of you brought it up first. If he said it, it’s okay to reach out. But if she said it, you should probably let it go. Men may still be undecided (and there’s a good chance they’ll get back together), but women are more likely to have already made up their minds and ended things. Hmm? Are you the woman who asked earlier? If this is through a club, just let it go. Rather than sending multiple messages, wait for the next offer.
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One week is far too soon. As everyone’s saying, if you wait a month, you may have found a new partner by then. It’s hard to tell without clearly stating your gender, age, and whether or not you’re a Universe member.
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I think one week is too short to really count as giving each other some space\(^o^)/ But then again, if you already started feeling lonely after just a week without contact, why not be honest and tell him how you feel right now? He may be waiting patiently too♪
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Whether he’s from a dating club or what the reason might be… We don’t know anything yet, so isn’t it too soon to contact him? I think it would be better to think things through a little more before taking action or saying anything. It’s probably still too soon. Update: I checked, and isn’t this the same questioner as here? https://universe-club.jp/help/questions/view/12895 At that time, it had only been a little over a month… So does saying “one week” in this question mean you’ve ended things with another man in the same way? Again, I think it would be better to sort things out for yourself a little more before taking action or making statements. If you want to contact him that badly, I think you should just try.
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Everyone’s sense of time is different, and it also depends on the situation. I can’t really say whether a week feels quick or not, lol. It’s me.
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It’s hard to say without knowing whether the person asking is male or female. And one week is awfully short—what were you even discussing?
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That’s too soon. At this point, it hardly seems like you’re keeping any distance at all. I think you should wait at least a month.
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