I currently see three women on a monthly arrangement.
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I haven't told any of them about the others, and if possible, I'd rather keep it that way.
The other day, while I was with one of them, I accidentally called her by another woman's name, and the atmosphere completely froze.
I tried to cover it up by saying it was the name of an ex-girlfriend, but I probably didn't get away with it...
Do you ever accidentally call a woman by the wrong name?
Does anyone have any good tricks for avoiding this?
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Just stop seeing multiple people at once. Since this is an allowance-based arrangement, that’s easy to do through a dating club（笑）
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I think it’s best not to hide that you’re seeing multiple people.
That way, things probably won’t feel awkward or anything…
But if you are keeping it secret, please make absolutely sure you don’t call someone by the wrong name (*´•ω•`*)…
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You don’t have to call them by name. Most of the time, there are only two of you, so they know who you’re talking to. You can get by perfectly well without using their name. The only time you really need to is when you’re traveling together and get separated.
I had a friend who was seeing women in the double digits at the same time—not through a dating club, just regular relationships. When I asked him, “Don’t you ever call them by the wrong name?” he immediately replied, “I don’t call them by name.” (Lol)
So I’d say this is a pretty basic technique—like “get down on one knee to field a ground ball” in baseball.
Taro,
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That has happened to me too.
When you really like a girl, you want to call her by name, so it’s easy to slip up sometimes.
Even if you get her name wrong at first, as you become closer and meet more often, you’ll eventually stop making that mistake.
The key is to call her by name as often as possible when you’re together, so you get used to it.
Once her name comes out naturally—almost reflexively—you won’t mix it up anymore.
If you hardly ever call her by name, then when you do want to, you may not be able to remember it right away and might end up saying the wrong name instead.
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I also see three women on a monthly arrangement. With two of them, we’re open about seeing multiple people, while with the other, I’ve said I’m not dating anyone else.
I’ve never gotten their names mixed up.
Whether you’re open about seeing multiple people or not, I think calling someone by the wrong name is disrespectful—even outside of dating—so I’m extremely careful.
As Marika said, it’s probably best not to use names at all.
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I used to have three Ma-chans, and two each named Yu-chan and E-chan.
These days, none of their names overlap anymore. I did mix them up today, though. I somehow managed to cover it up, but... There’s really no particular way to prevent it. Sometimes you just can’t help it...
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I think you should only make offers to women who all use the same club name, lol.
Or, put your nickname skills to work and give everyone the same nickname.
The female protagonist in Kurumi Inui’s *Initiation Love* used that trick to date multiple men. The male protagonist was also seeing several women, but he ended up ruining everything by calling them by the wrong names. Men really are idiots, huh?
It’s me.
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