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Sep 12, 2021 01:53
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Meg
Female
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🏅 修行の身
光と影
Age: 50s
👩 Female
Former Universe member
I’m Meg, a female member.
There’s really no ranking or anything like that…
Having just one papa (a male supporter) is more than enough to make me happy.
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from the CEO’s Office here.
Another one-line question…
If you think questions won’t be hidden just because they’re phrased as questions, please understand that they may still be hidden.
Please think carefully before posting.
I also think you should explain what made you want to ask that question in the first place.
A～Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月１程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member.
Of course, I keep track of them.
I’d say the criteria are probably the size of the allowance, the impression the date made, sexual compatibility, and how long you’ve been seeing each other.
🏅 ４０歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現ＡＩ界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Flag Maker, a column writer.
Most men assume, “I’m probably the only guy she’s seeing—or maybe there are three of us at most.” But sometimes she’s actually seeing eight men.
The reason she can keep things going with so many men is that she’s good at making each one believe, “I’m the only one.”
As long as she’s in papa-katsu, you’ll never hear the truth from a woman like that. Women are overwhelmingly better at lying.
Only after she’s left it all behind and moved on—sitting in a noisy yakitori bar with a draft beer in hand—will you finally hear something like:
Woman: “Honestly, things got pretty tough. Everyone’s love was just too much for me.”
“Wow… what was the maximum?”
Woman: “Ten.”
“Ten!?”
Woman: “Ten, lol.”
“That really is a lot, lol. You made it through! Cheers!!”
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Fuu, a column writer.
I imagine a natural order of priority develops over time. If you’re invited by multiple people on the same day, the one you choose ranks higher, right? (Haha)
My thinking is pretty close to Make-Otoko’s—I’m aiming for the No. 2 or No. 3 spot. It’s more casual and less stressful that way.
My ideal priority structure would be:
1st: her boyfriend, or another papa (a male supporter) if she doesn’t have one
2nd: Fuu
If I end up too low on her priority list, it becomes difficult to coordinate our dates, so I’ll do my best to stay in the top three at worst.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを！
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中！
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです！
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m a male member, Paper Airplane.
It probably depends on the woman, but unlike men, papa-katsu may not rank high enough for them to prioritize it…
For many, it’s barely even on their radar.
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m a losing male member.
Naturally, I assume women rank their papas. There’s no such thing as equality in this world, after all.
Personally, I’m aiming to be around No. 3 or No. 4 from a woman’s perspective. Being No. 1 or No. 2 would be too much trouble in various ways.
I always make sure to tell women things like:
“You should value most the person who’s kind, stable, and willing to see you often, even if his allowance isn’t particularly high. I’d be perfectly happy being around your No. 3.”
We’re going to be ranked anyway, so why not?
■Fuu
Thanks for joining the conversation!
From a woman’s perspective, I’d be perfectly happy with:
1. Boyfriend
2. Another papa
3. Another papa
4. Losing male
Something like that.
I’m a severe case of “Universe sickness” and have far too many women on hold, so I can’t keep up with all my dates. For now, the lower my priority, the better.
If I had fewer women on hold, I might aim for No. 3, but last night I found a Gold B-type woman who made me desperately want to hit the setting button, so I’m currently discussing it with my club representative＾＾；
Other
I schedule the limited number of days I’m available to date by prioritizing my favorite papa first, then trying to divide the remaining days as evenly as possible.
My favorite papa is more like a boyfriend than a papa, really.
Marika
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member.
What do you think…?
I believe there are men who are simply easy and comfortable to spend time with. You could say that might be the priority, couldn’t you?
For example:
A generous (well-paying) allowance, good looks, enjoyable conversation, being good in bed, being well-endowed and pleasurable, etc. (lol)
It’s probably safe to assume that men who don’t fit the above criteria rank lower on the priority list. (lol)
Other
I feel like men are probably the ones ranking people.
Akari
Other
I’m Aya, a female member.
I wouldn’t call it a matter of priorities, but there have been differences in how much time I spend with each papa due to circumstances—for example, a papa who lives overseas can only meet once a month, while a papa with young children can’t stay overnight because his wife gives him a hard time about it. But I like all of my papas.