Tips Oct 24, 2019 12:11

As you went on more and more dates, did your standards rise? Have they ever gone down? (I’d love to hear from both men and women.)

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斉藤さんだぞ♪
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I’m Saito, a columnist ♪ Just like Big Papa, I feel like I’ve developed a much clearer sense of my type. Of course, my standards have gone up too, so I no longer fall for temptations in everyday life, and even the pillow work in Ginza has started to feel like too much trouble. (In that sense, I no longer spend money on those things.)
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🏅 40歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現AI界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s 👨 Male Universe member
In my 30s and a new member I think it varies from person to person, but I don’t necessarily find that my standards get higher. If anything, I do find myself comparing the women I’ve made offers to and considering whether we’re a good fit. In the end, it’s less about looks and more about personality, chemistry, and whether we’re looking for the same kind of relationship. That means there are some women I stop seeing, but every one of them is wonderful, so I honestly feel sorry to be in a position where I have to make those choices.
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I’m a male member of UC and the new THE SALON. In my case, I think my standards have probably gotten higher. I made offers to around 30 women a year through Universe Club, and then met more than 10 through THE SALON. But ever since joining THE SALON, I’ve stopped feeling any excitement at all, even when I go on dates with women from Universe Club’s Platinum or Black classes. In that sense, I suppose my overall standards—looks, personality, and so on—have risen. Ultimately, I reached the point where I couldn’t be satisfied unless a woman was 100% my type physically, had a good personality, and, above all, had an almost unbelievably strong connection with me. Women like that are practically nonexistent, so I think I’ve just been going through my days believing in a miracle…
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Age: 60s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Basil, a male member. Naturally, I look for someone closer to my ideal than the woman I’m currently seeing, so my standards have gradually gotten higher. That doesn’t necessarily mean I’m looking for someone in a higher class, though. In my case, I’ve come to prioritize personality over looks—someone considerate and easy to be around, whose hobbies and availability match mine.
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マックさん
🏅 日没を遅らせる唯一の方法は日没に向かって走り続けることだ
名古屋支店登録で、男性会員としての登録名もマックさんです。コラム多数書いてますのでよろしければご参照ください。20代の細身女性が好みで逆オファーには前向きです。経験無いまたは少ない方大歓迎。
Age: 60s 👨 Male Universe member
It’s Mac. Just adding a little more: I love Papuwa’s freshness, but I also really enjoy Romane’s responses, which show such depth and generosity... Shall we go on a dinner date, the three of us, sometime? Since there’d be three of us, no one would think it was papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), so we wouldn’t feel embarrassed eating at a top-floor hotel restaurant(笑). It makes me want to give Romane a little spending money in a cute envelope(笑).
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