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Aug 14, 2023 10:56
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A～Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月１程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I think it depends on the person.
Before joining the club, I once read a blog by a man doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), and he even listed his dating expenses.
So I don’t think it would be strange for some papas to keep records.
As for me, I make sure the allowance amounts are clear.
I don’t keep detailed records of the dating expenses.
👨 Male
Universe member
It’s not really a matter of remembering—I’ve only ever had one dating partner. We’ve been seeing each other twice a month for five years, with a fixed monthly allowance, so I know exactly how much I’ve given her.
As for the cost of our dates, that gets a bit more complicated, so I can only give you a rough estimate.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
Some people remember, while others don’t.
Personally, I can check my records to see how much allowance I’ve given so far.
What’s the difference between the money you spent and the money you gave her? I don’t consider the money spent on going out together to be money spent on the woman.
I can only estimate how much I’ve spent on dates.