I use polite language, but I sometimes slip into casual speech when reacting (꒪˙꒳˙꒪ )
Also, after we’ve been intimate, we get much closer, and I become a little less formal ♪
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If you’re uncomfortable with it, there’s no need to force yourself to speak casually.
That said, as long as you continue using formal language, the man may feel that there’s still some distance between you.
If you want to maintain your relationship with him long-term, I think it would be best to respect his preference.
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If your papa says that, it should be okay to gradually switch from polite speech to speaking more casually.
At first, when you have an emotional reaction, try saying “I’m so happy!” or “This is delicious!” instead of “I’m happy” or “It’s delicious.” Saying something like “See you” when you part ways might also be an easy place to start.
But it’s strange—unless you genuinely like your papa and feel comfortable around him, it’s hard to naturally start speaking casually. So the most important thing is for you to build more and more trust in your papa. Is that difficult for you?
My current papa also told me to stop speaking so formally, and I resisted at first, but I got used to it over the course of about a year. I feel like my speech became more casual as our trust deepened.
Now we speak completely casually. When my papa says, “Thanks for staying with an old guy who’s 20 years older than you,” I’ll reply, “You just wanted to say that, didn’t you? You don’t actually think you’re an old guy, haha.”
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If it’s just the two of you, I think it’s fine to speak casually. Once you’ve known each other for a while, it tends to happen naturally. From the man’s perspective, it’s more like, “Huh, when did she start talking to me so casually?” I’d actually like to know what triggers that transition.
Personally, I’d gradually mix in casual speech during the conversation. Starting with little acknowledgments like “Yeah, exactly” might be the easiest way.
That said, casual speech should still reflect an equal relationship. Saying things like, “You’re enjoying this, aren’t you? Say it properly, baldy,” or “Don’t think you can do whatever you want just because you’re paying, you old man,” is just one-sided venting, not speaking casually as equals.
If you really want to go that far, I’d suggest getting permission separately and enjoying it as verbal play.
Use responsibly.
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