Tips Mar 27, 2022 00:27

My question got cut off. I had previously suggested allowing women to add comments to their “You’re lovely” likes. The other day, I received one with a comment, so I sent her an offer.

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Have any of you ever received an offer after sending a “You’re lovely” with a comment?
👤 Asked by Guest 👨GenderMale 🎂 50s 👑 Universe male member
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> I was the one who suggested adding the option for women to leave comments with their “Nice” reactions, so it’s better than before. Is this just bragging about the fact that your suggestion was implemented? Since you made the suggestion, did you offer to meet every woman who sent you a “Nice” with a comment? I doubt it. But if that’s the case, isn’t it disrespectful to the women who took the time to write thoughtful comments? Why did you suggest it in the first place? Once you’ve made a suggestion like that, I’d expect you to take responsibility for it. Though I guess you probably just said it without giving it much thought. Don’t you feel sorry for the women who take the time to write and send those comments? If that feature hadn’t existed, I feel like fewer women would have gotten their hopes up in the first place.
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I’ve sent likes with comments, but I’ve never gotten a response, so it’s a little discouraging. I’m glad it seems to have led to an offer, though♪♪
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Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
I’ve never made an offer based on a “Nice” with a comment. That’s simply because I’m holding off on making new offers for the time being. I do appreciate women who leave comments showing they’re interested in my hobbies and other things I like. If a woman I’ve added to my favorites sent me a “Nice” with a comment like that, I feel like I’d make her an offer right away. Of course, looks do play a role in my preferences, so I’d say it might help move you up the list once I start seriously considering someone.
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I’ve received a few likes with comments, but I haven’t made an offer yet. When I receive a comment or a like, I do check the person’s profile, so I think they have some effect.
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Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
Since the site switched to comments, I haven’t made my profile public. Before that, though, I sometimes looked for women to approach among those who had sent me “You seem nice” messages. I think it’s a good idea for men to explain in their messages what kind of date they have in mind and what they’d like to do. That naturally leads to enjoyable dates you both have in common. Women’s comments can also be copied, so unless they’re personalized, I don’t think they carry that much weight. Also, I think it’s important to keep your income and occupation private.
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Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I have a very clear idea of which women I want to meet. Since I have no interest whatsoever in women who don’t fit that image, I keep my profile private. So I’ve never wanted—or received—a message saying, “You seem lovely.”
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