How should I turn a man down when he tries to undress me or grope my breasts through my clothes?
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I hate having my clothes handled roughly, and I also worry about getting makeup on them.
I also really dislike how groping through my clothes can stretch and ruin the shape of that area.
The papas I’m close with know I don’t like it, so they never do it, but things aren’t necessarily the same with someone I’m meeting for the first time.
Is it okay to simply explain these reasons as they are?
If you have any suitable ways of turning someone down, I’d appreciate your suggestions.
I understand that the appropriate response depends on the person, so I’d just like to hear your opinions for reference.
I’m Flag Maker, a column writer.
Once you get to the hotel, take your clothes off right away.
Wouldn’t saying “I’m going to take a shower now♡” be the safest and least awkward option?
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When you’re still feeling things out, I’d avoid chiffon blouses, knitwear, and the like. Instead, wear something neat but sturdy, such as a ○OXY dress.
If someone seems likely to treat you roughly, either don’t pursue the relationship—or, if you’re meeting them for the money, prepare a suitable “battle outfit” for the occasion.
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Maezawa from the CEO’s office here, and I’ll answer as well.
I think men are more likely to accept it if you simply tell them the real reason rather than turning them down without any explanation.
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I’m a male member, and my username is Paper Airplane.
Rather than turning them down, I make sure to shower beforehand so there’s no chance of that happening.
Alternatively, I’ll get tipsy, build up the mood, and make us want to undress each other and get into bed right away, so it doesn’t bother me.
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