I no longer feel like seeing one particular papa. I think the main reason is his appearance. He’s in his early 30s and the youngest of all my papas, but I feel the most embarrassed when he stands next to me. He’s overweight and unattractive, and because we’re close in age, people clearly don’t see us as papa-katsu or a paid date—they mistake us for a couple, which makes me feel even more uncomfortable.
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But we’ve been seeing each other for about a year now.
What would you normally think if someone suddenly told you they wanted to stop seeing you because they couldn’t stand your appearance anymore...?
Maezawa from the CEO’s office here.
I feel like there are a lot of mysteries surrounding this question.
If their looks bother you that much, would you really stay together for a whole year?
Normally, you’d turn them down from the start or part ways after a few meetings at most.
That makes me wonder whether the claim that you’ve been together for a year is a lie—or whether the entire question is fabricated.
It’s also strange that you’re asking this despite having no desire to meet them. If you don’t want to see them, you don’t need to ask anything; just stop meeting them.
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I’m in Seattle.
You can break up with her, but before you do, please kindly tell her that you want her to lose weight. You can’t help her face, but being fat is simply a lack of effort.
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I’m Aya, a female member.
If you keep putting things off and repeatedly cancel at the last minute without setting a date for your next meeting, he’ll probably gradually fade out. A papa (a male supporter) is just like any other friend—if you give off the vibe that you don’t want to see him, he’ll eventually get the message.
It honestly makes me wonder whether you’re doing okay in everyday life if you can’t figure out something this simple.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
They’ll probably get offended or angry. Unless you have some reason to get back at them, I don’t think it’s worth the risk of deliberately provoking them.
Wouldn’t it be a hassle if they held a grudge and retaliated somehow?
I think you should either come up with a plausible reason to end things or simply break it off without giving a reason.
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