Tips Nov 16, 2021 00:19

I’m so into the person I like that I don’t feel like having sex with anyone except my monthly papa. Actually, I don’t want anything beyond dinner.

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Is it okay to tell my pay-per-meeting papa that? Would it be okay to say, “I’m seeing someone I like, so I don’t feel like having sex or going out for a while”? I’ve been seeing this pay-per-meeting papa for a year, and our relationship is more like a friendship. We’ve only had sex five times.
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ダイ
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member. Please feel free to ask anything. Actually, there was a similar question before.
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太郎
太郎 ?
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I’m Taro, a male member. You should just be honest and tell him directly. With an ordinary man, that would probably be the end of it. But with this particular man, things might continue as dinner only (no intimacy). If they do, you should openly tell him what you’ve been thinking and feeling all along. In fact, I think that would be better. It’s a short question, but for some reason, I got a good feeling from it. Considering the way you two have been seeing each other, I think he may feel the same way.
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あや
あや ?
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I’m Aya, a female member. I think it’s fine to say so. You don’t have to do anything with someone you don’t want to.
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カズ
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member. You absolutely can say that. You’re an individual with free will. If anything, I find it strange that you would think you shouldn’t be allowed to say it.
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茉莉花
茉莉花 ?
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Of course you can say that. It’s entirely up to you. And it’s also up to the papa (a male supporter) whether he wants to meet for dinner only (no intimacy), or not meet unless sex is involved. But why is a monthly arrangement okay? I don’t really understand that part. Marika
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