I feel like a lot of older men refuse to admit when they’re in the wrong and never apologize.
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They should take a page out of Ryuchell’s book.
To keep a relationship healthy, he says you should apologize first—not over who’s right or wrong, but for making the other person feel hurt.
That’s why that couple is so lovey-dovey, right?
Do men stop even making an effort to maintain a relationship once they have money?
I hate older men who absolutely refuse to apologize. No way—bleh!
I’m Fuu, a column writer.
I’m sorry.
I didn’t mean to upset you.
I want to keep seeing my favorite partners
and enjoy lots of H together,
so I’m quick to apologize
so they won’t cut me off.
That “bleh!” face was funny.
Sorry for saying it was funny.
Did I offend you?
I apologized and reflected on it.
This was Fuu, hoping to keep having
the best possible relationship and H
for a long time.
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I’m in Seattle.
The “bleh” made me laugh.
I apologize right away. I spent 15 years constantly apologizing to my wife, until she became stronger and we ended up divorcing.
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I'm Aya, a female member.
I think you should just tell him exactly that.
“Your words and actions really hurt me. I want you to apologize for that.”
If you say that, anyone who isn't completely unreasonable will apologize.
If he still refuses, the only option is to get angry and make him feel intimidated or uneasy.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
In most relationships, I don’t think it’s often the case that only one person is at fault. I feel that simply apologizing to smooth things over, at least for the time being, is insincere.
Some people may see the allowance as an effort to maintain the relationship.
If you feel someone is impossible to deal with, why not just choose not to date them?
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I’m Flag Maker, a column writer.
Exactly. Men tend to focus on finding the “cause” of why they made someone angry, but that’s the wrong approach. The real issue is that they made the other person feel bad in the first place—that’s what they should apologize for. I didn’t really understand that in the past, but I do now.
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