When I met my papa (a male supporter) for the first time, I thought he had money and seemed like a good person, so when we met for the second time, I had an adult relationship (intimate) with him without discussing money. In the end, he only gave me 10,000 yen. Now he’s telling me, “Let’s have an adult relationship (intimate) again next time.”

Question

I want to keep him around because he has money, so is there any way to get him to increase my allowance? For example, saying that I’m short on money this month or that someone else offered me more? Thank you.

Answer 1

I’m Dai, a male member. Even if he looks well-off or seems like a nice person, you haven’t received any allowance from him. Maybe it’s the app you’re using, but generally speaking, you shouldn’t expect the allowance to increase later on.

Answer 2

Would it be wrong to say, “I only received transportation money last time, so I’d like to discuss the allowance for an adult relationship (intimate)”? I’d like to know how men would feel if they were told that. Personally, if someone seems financially comfortable but doesn’t offer anything from the start, I assume they simply don’t want to pay, so I avoid meeting them without negotiating. I’m not good at negotiating. —Marika

Answer 3

I’m Kazu, a male member. I think it’s a good idea to do something amazing for her—something you wouldn’t do for other women—and then say, “If you want me to do that again, you’ll need to give me a bigger allowance.”

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