I always thought dripping candle wax was the kind of thing people enjoyed way back in the day, but I guess there are still people who want to do it.
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Is it common in this scene?
I was already surprised when he took me to a mixed-gender hot spring, but the candle wax was an even bigger surprise, lol.
I feel like I’ve seen people mention going from a mixed-gender hot spring to candle wax here before, so I wonder if my papa (a male supporter) saw this site.
Isn’t candle wax way too hot?
Do you all do this too?
It’s red…
I’m Nana Ayase ♡
I don’t have any candles, and I’ve never even heard of that.
Is he from the Edo period?
That sounds like black magic. Tell him, “Cut it out already (º言º).”
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Maezawa from the President’s Office will answer this one too.
> I feel like I’ve seen something here before about using candles after going to a mixed-gender hot spring.
I don’t remember seeing it, though. Maybe it was a long time ago and has simply faded from my memory?
Even if that’s how you remember it, unless you provide the URL, I have to wonder whether this is a case of mistaken identity.
Hard to say.
By the way, I searched for some information and found this:
“Candles like those used on household altars or placed on birthday cakes generally have a melting point of around 60–70°C, while low-temperature candles for BDSM are around 50°C. Some are even around 45°C.
The sensation is similar to having hot water poured on you, but because the brain associates candles with heat, the psychological stimulation and excitement can be intense!”
So I think you should make sure they’re properly using low-temperature candles.
It could also be that the other person isn’t used to it.
In any case, if you don’t like it, I think you should just decline.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
As others have mentioned, those are low-temperature candles. Even so, you need to adjust the height and speed at which you drip the wax so it doesn’t get too hot or cause burns. It’s common sense for a dominant man to test it on his own arm beforehand to determine the proper height.
If it was too hot, that man was probably just an amateur.
I only do that with women who share that kind of preference or interest. I don’t think it’s normal at a standard dating club.
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Candles made for BDSM aren’t as hot as regular ones. They’re made from wax with a low melting point.
It’s dangerous to imitate BDSM with someone who doesn’t know what they’re doing, so you’re better off not doing it.
I don’t know what kind of circle this is, but it doesn’t sound normal. And doing it without consent amounts to assault.
Marika
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I’ve never done that.
If you didn’t like it, hopefully you’ll be able to say so next time. If the allowance is really generous, though, you could always choose to put up with it…
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