Tips Oct 29, 2021 19:06

I'm unsure whether to work at a restaurant owned by my former papa. I have a papa in his 20s, and I've come to like him romantically, so we've recently been seeing each other without any allowance. He's opening a restaurant soon—more focused on alcohol than food—and asked if I'd like to work there part-time. We're not dating yet. I probably won't be able to see him as often once the restaurant opens, so I'm really torn because working there would let me see him. But if we start working together too, wouldn't that make our relationship kind of awkward...? I want to see him, and I'm a college student with plenty of time, so I could work there. But from the outside, it would be obvious that I'm involved with the owner, and if I ended up disliking the job and quit, it would probably become harder to see him too. Should I really avoid working with him?

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I’m Dai, a male member. I don’t think working for your papa’s company usually works out well. Romance and work are two completely different things.
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I’m Nana Ayase♡ I used to work as a secretary for the president of a regular company, but I quit after being sexually harassed. There are always other people watching, and it’s not something you can keep hidden forever. If strange rumors start spreading, you’ll be the one who suffers, so I don’t recommend it.
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I’m Kazu, a male member. Yes, I think business owners who date their own employees are usually trouble, aside from rare exceptions like Iroha Daiou or someone who starts a company specifically to create a workplace for their mistress.
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