There’s a woman who has never invited me out herself, but will meet me whenever I contact her. (We’ve already gone on more than 10 dates.)
Could it be that women like this hold back so they won’t be seen as money-minded, or that they’re simply not good at asking someone out themselves?
If she didn’t like me, she wouldn’t keep meeting me so many times, right?
Also, would it be okay to tell her that I’d like her to invite me out occasionally?
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If she accepts when you invite her, isn’t that good enough?
Wanting her to be the one to initiate may be pushing things too far and not matching her feelings.
Take a good look at her behavior.
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> Women may be holding back because they don’t want to come across as being all about money.
A lot of women find it hard to initiate because they don’t want to seem money-focused. So perhaps they want to ask but feel unable to say it.
> Is it okay to tell a woman that I’d like her to invite me sometimes, too?
I think it’s fine to say so, but she’ll probably still feel hesitant.
So I think you should keep inviting her as often as before.
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I worry that I might come across as too money-minded, but once his schedule fills up, we can’t meet, so I let him know early that I’d like to see him.
Well, since we only meet once a month, I guess I’m not that important to him…
There’s no point sulking about it here, but I do feel lonely.
I’m always really happy when a man takes the initiative and asks me out, but I think it’s perfectly fine to tell a woman that she should ask you out sometimes, too.
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