A few days ago, I had a first dinner-only meeting with a B-type woman, and we parted ways after the meal. We really hit it off, but when I asked what kind of men she likes, she immediately answered, “Tall, clean-cut handsome guys!”—the exact opposite of me (I’m shorter than average, and I have fairly strong features, haha).
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Ladies, even when it’s papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), don’t you usually try to be a little considerate in situations like this? I’m looking for a pseudo-romantic relationship, so it bothers me a little(^^;;
I’m Flag Maker, a column writer.
Don’t let something like that scare you. It’s all about the overall package, haha.
I wrote a column about taking on a woman who likes handsome guys and already has a handsome friends-with-benefits partner—going up against him with my overall appeal. Check it out for reference:
https://universe-club.jp/column/av2
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> Don’t women at least try to be considerate when answering questions like this, even in papa-katsu?
You’re dreaming too much.
It’s not a matter of being considerate. A man she’s attracted to and a papa (a male supporter) are two completely different things—practically different worlds.
In the first place, you—and basically papas in general—aren’t her type, so she’d probably just answer honestly.
For example, are you the kind of person who thinks, “If a woman says she likes Johnny’s idols, shouldn’t she at least be a little considerate of my feelings?”
Liking Johnny’s idols and having dinner with you at that moment are two separate things.
That said, I think it’s fine to dream that, over time, she might gradually come to like you. Of course, I suspect that would take an incredible amount of effort and money.
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I’m Date◎Yume, a male member.
Haha (lol).
That’s a good question (lol).
I agree that it’s normal for women to be considerate, too.
In this case, though, I think you should be very concerned about it—not just a little (lol).
But, well, most women feel that way at first, so it can’t really be helped.
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I’m Aya, a female member.
I’m sorry you ran into such an unpleasant woman… She probably didn’t see you as a man at all—just as an ATM in human form.
That said, I think there are plenty of women who are considerate. I haven’t really been asked that myself, but if someone asked me at a group date, I’d answer by picking out one of the other person’s characteristics. If he were wearing a suit, I might say, “Someone who looks good in a suit,” or, regardless of his height, mention something about his personality, like, “Someone who’s ambitious about his work.”
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I’m a male member, Paper Airplane.
You probably don’t need to worry about it that much.
When I asked my wife, she named Inaba, Takeru Satoh, Ryosuke Yamada, and Masaki Okada.
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So you’ve already been rejected, huh?
Let’s look for someone else. Maybe they were just too young for you?
If you want a calm, mature relationship, I’d recommend dating someone around your age.
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I’m Dai, a male member.
If they know you’re looking for a simulated romantic relationship, I think most women will respond accordingly.
But I suppose you want them to give you the “correct” answer…
You could just not ask in the first place.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
No, I think as grown adults, we’re considerate enough not to ask questions like that. What’s the point of forcing her to lie? Haha.
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