As A沢Eみり says, I think you should carry decent bags and wear nice clothes so you won't be treated carelessly, but I've also heard that even wearing quality items can backfire because they'll suspect another man bought them for you.
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I don't want to be treated carelessly, and I don't want to attract low-paying papas. When I put together an outfit with affordable items, I end up meeting men who say things like, “You're so good and cute for not living extravagantly.”
What should I do?
I’m Aya, a female member.
Emiri, you’re targeting customers who come to cabaret clubs, right? Cabaret club customers are a different crowd from papa-katsu men. Men in papa-katsu generally aren’t into nightlife-industry women—they want to meet someone more down-to-earth.
So there’s really no point in wearing nothing but Piaget, Hermès, and CHANEL like Emiri does.
Even if you stick to affordable brands, you can still meet a papa who gives you a generous allowance. I think it mostly comes down to luck… But maybe cabaret clubs or lounges would suit you better.
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I’m a male member, Paper Airplane.
It really depends on the person, not what they’re wearing.
If you can look great in UNIQLO, GU, or Shimamura, there’s absolutely no problem.
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This is Nana Ayase ♡
Clothes with very thin, flimsy fabrics, like UNIQLO, might make you seem less polished to someone you’re meeting for the first time. That said, some girls apparently meet their papa wearing Korean-style dresses, so I think it’s fine as long as you don’t look cheap.
You definitely don’t need to dress head-to-toe in Chanel. Just wear good-quality clothes.
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I’m Maezawa from the CEO’s Office, and I’ll answer as well.
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I think you should follow through on the first part:
“I feel that I should carry a proper bag and wear decent clothes so I won’t be treated carelessly.”
The possibility of not being treated casually may arise precisely because there’s a hint of another man in the picture.
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I’m in Seattle.
I’m in the top 10% of earners on the club, but I don’t pay attention to bags or clothes. I only care about her face.
I think your only option is to accept lots of offers and get him hooked on you through conversation.
If you’re his type, he’ll turn into an ATM. But even if he has money, he won’t become one if he isn’t enjoying himself.
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