I was approached by a man my age while I was alone at night, and we spent the night together. (We didn’t have sex.) But we parted without him even asking for my contact information. Was I taken lightly? If so, how can I be seen as an attractive woman who isn’t easy?

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Do I have no choice but to work on my appearance? I was told, “You’re pushing yourself way too hard, so you shouldn’t try so hard.” They also said they’d seen people at work break down from pushing themselves too much. I’m not falling apart at all. I don’t understand why I seem that way to them.

Answer 1

I’m Dai, a male member. If he wanted to sleep with you, he should’ve just said so himself. Around the age of the person asking this question, there are probably plenty of men who are “herbivores” and won’t make the first move. By the way, I feel like your 20s and 30s are the time to invest in your own growth, even if it means pushing yourself a little—but maybe that’s just an old-school Showa-era way of thinking, haha.

Answer 2

Maezawa from the CEO’s office here. > I don’t understand why I came across that way. Maybe it was because you were alone at night? (Though I suppose it also depends on the location.) Perhaps the man spoke to you because he thought it might be dangerous for you to be alone. There are still men like that these days.

I was approached by a man my age while I was alone at night, and we spent the night together. (We didn’t have sex.) But we parted without him even asking for my contact information. Was I taken lightly? If so, how can I be seen as an attractive woman who isn’t easy?

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I was approached by a man my age while I was alone at night, and we spent the night together. (We didn’t have sex.) But we parted without him even asking for my contact information. Was I taken lightly? If so, how can I be seen as an attractive woman who isn’t easy?

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