I think you should confidently state the allowance you want, based on your own views. Then you can date someone whose thoughts and wishes match yours—that’s what meeting through a dating club is all about.
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That said, please don’t post things in the answers like, “Even among Platinum and Black members, there are women who ask for an allowance of ¥30,000 or ¥40,000.” I assume you’re trying to say that even attractive women who ask for a low allowance are admirable, humble, and not motivated by money—but that’s completely untrue. It makes women who ask for a higher amount sound like the bad guys, so please stop. If you prefer women who ask for a smaller allowance, why not keep that opinion to yourself instead of going out of your way to write it in the answer section?
Also, the idea that women in their teens smell like urine is Kaz-san’s opinion. Most men like young women. From the perspective of those of us in our teens and early twenties, men in their forties and fifties smell like old age, so we don’t like them and don’t want to talk to them unless we’re paid—that’s exactly the same thing. Though, of course, that’s just my opinion and that of all my female friends; there might be someone who absolutely loves men in their forties or fifties who smell like old age. Who knows, though.
Men who offer a high allowance are admirable, and women who accept a low allowance are cute.
That’s only natural, right?
So, I’m Paper Airplane, a male member who thinks it’s perfectly fine to date without deciding on or even discussing the allowance, as long as the chemistry and compatibility are good.
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I’m Fuu, a column writer.
Everyone has their own views on allowances. Just as you’re telling the respondent to keep their feelings to themselves, couldn’t you simply have kept yours to yourself instead of going out of your way to post them here?
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I’m Aya, a female member.
I understand why you’re angry, but even attractive women can say they’re looking for a low allowance and be seen as humble, down-to-earth, and not money-driven—while still receiving an unexpectedly generous allowance. Some wealthy men prefer humble women.
As for papas who catch serious feelings and try to lower your allowance, can’t you just quietly cut them off?
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I’m Dai, a male member.
Just as questioners are free to ask whatever they like, respondents are free to answer however they like.
It’s not like we’re tailoring our comments to please the club...
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I’m in Seattle.
It’s okay for people to have different opinions, isn’t it? Read everything and make your own overall judgment. We’re all writing here partly just to pass the time and have some fun. It’s entertaining no matter how many times you look at it.
If a woman gets a high allowance, never gets dropped, keeps her arrangements going, and has plenty of backups, nothing anyone writes will shake her.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
If I’d actually encountered one, I would’ve said so. Why should I have to choose my words out of consideration for the person asking the question?
As you said—and as I wrote, “I”—finding teenage girls to smell like urine is my opinion. So what?
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