Are there many men in papa-katsu who introduce the women they’re seeing to their friends, and vice versa?
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I’ve been introduced a few times, but my PJ friends say it’s unusual.
Sometimes I find the other man more appealing—including his allowance—and think, “He seems really nice…” but I can’t exactly say that in front of my papa, can I?
Also, what do you all talk about when it’s just the women?
Would it shock a papa, or seem strange, if I said I’d like to swap papas?
I’m Aya, a female member.
I’ve never been introduced to anyone. I also haven’t told my friends about doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), so I’m not sure whether there are similar cases. Sorry.
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I’m Dai, a male member.
It could be fun to swap papas if they have similar terms.
But honestly, I wouldn’t like it if the reason was simply that she compared her papa with the man in front of her and envied the other one.
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I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member.
I’ve never introduced anyone to another member, nor have I ever been introduced by anyone. In my case, I keep my activities with the dating club completely confidential. Naturally, I expect the same from the women I see.
So, the subject of exchanging papas never comes up. Those who are able to exchange papas are free to do so at their own discretion, as long as the circumstances allow it.
The only people who know about my arrangements are the club’s branch staff.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
I think it’s pretty unusual.
The woman will probably be careful not to embarrass her papa as well, so if I’m introducing someone, I’m extremely mindful not to put the woman I bring along in an uncomfortable position.
Likewise, I’m considerate of the woman being introduced by the other person. I can’t afford to embarrass the other man through some blunder of mine. At the same time, I must make sure she doesn’t end up thinking, “The other man seems nicer and more generous with his allowance.”
I’m also careful around the men involved. I have to cautiously figure out what their intentions are in making the introduction. Even when exchanging contact information with the woman being introduced, I should ask the man for permission when she isn’t there. I mustn’t embarrass him in front of the woman he brought.
I’m not sure whether “papa swapping” means exchanging temporary sex partners or swapping long-term dating partners, but acting carelessly could anger everyone involved. I recommend proceeding cautiously while carefully assessing the situation.
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I’m Flag Maker, a column writer.
It might be fun to bring a voice recorder, have two guys take an extended bathroom break together, then go out for drinks afterward—sharing a pair of earbuds and listening to the recording while drinking.
I’d probably spit out my drink laughing.
But whether swapping papas is okay or not is something you’ll have to ask that papa.
As for me, I feel like I’d want to try it at least once, but I’m worried it could end up being a pretty bad idea.
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